Regardless of what popular media displays, the majority of people are not a size 2. The recent Fox reality show “More to Love” has received mixed reviews as people debate whether they want to see fat people being intimate. Well, sorry to be the one to break it to you, but the “reality” of the situation is that fat people love sex too. So what exactly are the best positions for someone of large stature? Here is a breakdown of the top 4 sex positions for plus sized lovers.
Although this may be a tough thing to visualize, fat people can very much enjoy the most commonly practiced position. It may take some imagination and minor tweaking but the result can be worth the practice. Start by placing pillows underneath the woman to raise her pelvis. A must have for fat people sex is a variety of pillows ranging in shape and size. Instead of the traditional man lays on top, try spreading her legs and bending her knees. At this point the man moves forward, on his knees, until he can enter her vagina and rest comfortably on her legs. If she has large thighs, it might be a good idea to stretch before attempting this position so she does not pull any muscles.
Even with a super-sized backend, virtually anyone can get pleasure from this position. If it is difficult for the woman to hold her weight up as the man thrusts from behind, the previously mentioned assortment of pillows can be her best friend. Position them in a way that she can relax completely and enjoy the physical sensations but they do not interfere with his thrusting space. Doggy style is notorious for being the easiest way to reach a woman’s G-spot due to it being located at the top of her vagina, and anatomy does not change with the number on the scale.
Woman on Top
This is a very pleasurable position for both parties if done correctly. However, you will want to make sure the positioning is right before going to town. The sheer weight alone can bring an intimate night to a screeching halt if she lands on him the wrong way. The best way to maximize this sexual experience is again to use pillows. Make sure both parties are well supported. Once in position the woman will lower herself slowly onto the man until he is deep inside of her. At this point the sky is the limit. Ride him like the wind. A great tool in this position is the wall. As she moves rhythmically on top of him, she can support herself with the wall located right above his head. This will allow for the intimacy of eye contact as well as give the deepest penetration possible. A great variation of this position is to have the woman face the man’s feet. This way, there is no worry of tummies getting in the way.
Another favorite requires the man to stand at the foot of the bed. The woman lies flat on her back and scoots until her buttocks are at the end of the bed. At this point, he can hold her feet in his hands giving him control of her lower region. He can explore a variety of options varying from the angle he holds her legs to depth of penetration by simple adjustments. This also is a great position for oral sex because it gives more moveability for the party who is performing the service
Thoughts about fat people and sex in general…
Being overweight will usually require increased communication in order to make a sexual position work comfortably. However, those heightened communication skills give you a leg up (no pun intended) on your fellow skinny friends that can perform an entire sexual marathon without ever speaking a word to their partner. It is important to note that the most powerful sex organ is your mind. As long as you feel confident and are able to communicate your feelings, the sky is the limit.