Hello there,
Thank you so much for let me ask you guys this question I have been with my wife since 2008 in tell now but now we have problem its been about a year about Anal sex I love it but she do not want it. I know how to do it because I do it before with anther girl that they do not have Anal before and they love it and the start to use to it. we do it last year but she do not like it. I try by romantic night or drink , massage ..ect nothing work. But you know what every time the I touch her Anus I hear her she like it and I kiss her down and I put my finger and she like it but when I put my pines in her Anus she do not let me go deeper she take it out. I try to be so sad so mad I slept in the other room but not working. she say Painful. some time I think to leave her. so I do not know what i should do.
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Macky / 46 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Dude, if you are gonna try to stick a pine tree up there no wonder she doesn't want it.
(LOL)
Secondly, its not a required part of intercourse. It's a bonus for some who get it and something you won't get if she won't give it. Be patient with her. It may take years (I'm almost into 15 and its only now starting to be a topic that can be explored.) Don't let this one "bonus feature" ruin the rest of your sex life.
Men who assume it's their right are... wrong.
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ok, standar, anal play (what u do with ur fingers/tongue/whatever) is WAY different than anal sex using ur penis! i mean, come on! look at ur dick. now look at ur fingers. notice how one is small, while the other is much bigger? it's like this- you get a shot from a thin needle. then u get poked by a roofing nail. which will hurt more? come on! ur considering leaving ur wife over a bonus???? are you in-fuckin-stupid?
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
yeah, you have to take it easy. She needs to gradual train her ass to take more.
There are some posts on that here
take a peek
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