Hi
Me and my girlfriend are in relationship for 3 years now. We have had lot of fun and sex in many positions. Now my girlfriend says to try threesome. i.e 2m-1f. But ithink its not right although not strictly, she says its just right and to trust her. Now am confused is it alright and it shall not cause any problem in our relationship as we have planned to get married .
Please advice and tell me from all your experience and make my mind clear ....
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GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Only enter into this once you have talked it through thoroughly, made boundaries clear and you trust each other implicitly.
It can make a dull relationship spark again but only in the right circumstances. If either of you gets jealous easily then i really wouldnt bother.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
So you're worried about bringing another man into the mix, correct? If you have a problem with it, tell her about that. There's nothing wrong with being open minded, but there is also nothing wrong with having certain morals. If you're not ready for a threesome, don't go through it. Talk things out until you are in fact ready.
If the reason you aren't ready is because of insecurity though, note that she will not leave you for whatever other man comes into the relationship. If she does, you wouldn't want her as a wife anyway. Period. You can either take a leap of faith or wait for the time being. There's no wrong decision here.
Good luck! :)
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