I have never had anal attemted a few times but it always hurt even if he just used his thumb I'm told its suppose to be awsome and make you squart even, but anyways i really wanna try it and i know it will hurt the 1st time but is it gunna hurt everytime???
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Megan / 21 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Married
Hm, I'm not quite sure where you heard it's supposed to feel "Awesome". Because every women I've ever talked to told me that it really isn't THAT pleasurable, they do it mostly because it pleases the man. I've done anal enough up to this point that It does feel pretty good to me, but saying it can make women "Squirt" is news to me, although I couldn't squirt if you paid me :P
It does feel a bit uncomfortable when you first try it, and could hurt if you don't use enough lube. So I suggest you do just that, use A LOT of lube. Hopefully if you wanna try it more than once it will feel easier and less painful on the second or third time around. Good luck :)
Gman4203 / Man / Likes Women / Single
I have done anal with a few women and found that those who do it often like it very much. My current gillrlfriend never turns it down and often has an orgasm while I stimulate her clit during anal. She is sleeping next to me now and I am getting turned on while thinking about it. I think I will wake her up..........
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Anal wont make you squirt.
Anal is uncomfortable and is best attempted after some preparation. Try a finger or two while you make out or while you have your pussy licked. Use plenty of lube and i mean plenty!
A condom and plenty of KY jelly will make things slide easier and also a vibe on your clit. You will get used to it after a while, some women only ever manage to tolerate it whilst others enjoy it as much as vaginal sex.
Honey · what is KY jelly??
GG · Water based lube.
Honey · oic lol duh
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Yeah lots of lube. as these awesome ladys have pointed out. With girlfriends new to anal, i always just do a little anal play every time we had sex. and progressively got into bigger things. One trick that i learned is to put some pressure and partial penetration then go back out, until she starts to relax a bit. The more she relaxed the more i would put in, and the speed would increase. Plenty of lube breaks haha
Best of luck. Take it slow. and tell him if it hurts. communication a beautiful thing.
Honey · lol hope u got some
Honey / 23 / Woman / Likes Men / Married
is this true or correct?????
>>>12GAUGE · Adrian- If your lovers ass is sore after you're done fucking her it could be because you're doing it wrong. Not trying to hurt your feelings ADE but Anal sex is NOT supposed to hurt the bottom (unless she enjoys pain). Pain, sore asses and men that DON'T LISTEN to their lovers is why many women say no to anal sex.
>>?Honey · Then what is my husband and I doing wrong??? we tried using alot of LUBE and whatnot but even when he just gets his tip in it hurts me and here i REALLY wanna do anal
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