I recently had a weird, but fun experience with my girlfriend. We're really kinky and like to explore whatever turns us on. However, I've been afraid to tell her that I've always fantasized about getting fucked by a guy. I've never done it before, so I don't know what to expect. It's my ultimate fantasy to have my girlfriend force a guy to fuck me from behind; but I don't know if she'll be into this particular fantasy because she's not really big on buttplay to begin with. We've tried anal in the past but, out of all the other things we've done together, she never seems to be enthusiastic about this particular activity. How can I get my girl to play with my butt? And, what should I expect when I'm being fucked by a guy?
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Exokisa / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Is she unenthusiastic about receiving anal or giving it? While she might shy away from having something in her butt, putting something in yours might seem like a better deal. I like to jokingly say that if you want to put something in my butt, you better be ready for the same, but sadly it only works like that in a perfect world.
Since you and your girlfriend seem adventurous, I don't think it will be necessary to beat around the bush too much. Show her some articles on girls pegging their boyfriends or even video of it. Ask her how she'd feel about that. If she seems reluctant but still willing to try do everything in your power to make it a pleasant experience for her. That means, be squeaky clean, do your research, give her advice if she needs it and be ready to drop compliments and thanks like rain.
If she enjoys seeing you writhe in pleasure while she's pegging you, she might be open to the idea of seeing someone else do the same to you. If she doesn't enjoy it, learning that you want to be fucked by a guy will probably make her question your sexuality. Either way, you want to reassure her that you love women and pussy--demonstrations would be helpful here. The truth is, when two people are in a happy, healthy relationship where they feel comfortable sharing their desires, it's the best setting for having those desires met.
Being fucked by a man will probably make you feel very submissive, maybe moreso than with your girlfriend. If you've adequately prepared, it can be very pleasurable, especially for a man, because of where the prostate is situated. Where your girlfriend might have infinite patience while penetrating your ass and waiting for you to adjust to the size of the dildo, most men would have less control. Here's hoping all your fantasies come true.
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Just because you're girlfriend isn't into receiving anal doesn't mean she wouldn't enjoy watching you get pleasure out of it! Take small steps at first, initiating foreplay or "buttplay" with your butt. Then maybe you can progress to toys in your butt. If all goes well, then suggest another male partner in the room. The idea is to gradually get her into it. You'll never know if you don't ask. Who knows, maybe in time, she'll prefer buttplay with her ass!
Tylon / Man / Likes Men / Single
exokisa - totally untrue. i sometimes like large things in my butt, but this doesnt seem to make girls want to take my cock anally anymore than if i didnt, so put your money where your mouth is! lol. luckily my wife likes it, so we're all good. (maybe thats why i married her :).
but anyway, just wanted to destroy your tired cliche.
(basically the issue with guys not wanting to be pegged is cuz it 'makes them gay'. the issue with girls not wanting to get fucked in the ass is totally unrelated to that, so they're not equivalent mental hurdles (tho most of the physical ones are the same, but usually more easily overcome than the mental ones - the mind is very powerful).
im really curious to hear your reasoned reply. (or heaven's...)
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