my girlfriend said that she read an article in a magazine ..how to make your guy submissive to your needs. She went on to tell me that the article said by making your boyfreind or husband wear a butt plug he will become submissive to her. So she wants me to start wearing a butt plug on weekends from the time I get home from work on friday til monday morning when I go back. She said she would like me to do this so she can have what she wants from me. My question is would this hurt me in any way and is this normal. Have you ever heard of this before? And lastly do you think it's a good idea?
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GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Right first off,it is absolutely fine but please please do start off gently if you have a virgin ass. Secondly, normality is relative. Thirdly, its a good idea if you want to oblige her, if you have any doubts then talk them over first before you decide either way.
On another note, the act of actually wearing a butt plug will not in itself make you a submissive male. This is something that you naturally are or naturally aren't ie a dominant male instead. It is however a very submissive act and if you are unsure of the butt plug thing but want to be submissive to her then there are plenty of other ways that you can do this :-)
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
Wearing a butt plug hardly "makes" you submissive. If you want to do so by all means. However you don't have to play a sub role with your GF if you don't want to just because she wants you to, its entirely your choice and should be based on what you both want or at least something that will make her happy but won't bother more than your desire to make her happy.
GG · Exactly what i wrote Andy :-)
Shred / 42 / Man / Likes Men / Single
Grow a pair and put your plug in her bung. You wear the pants. You are the one with the pennis. Grab her hair and push her face in the pillow and let her know who is submissive and who is not.
GG · Im assuming you aren't submissive then lol. Neither am i, well for the most part and if my fella did that the only result he would be likely to achieve is one of a swift punch lol
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