i have been with a woman for a long time. i'm tired of the same thing each time. i want to have anal sex with her but she says my dick is too thick. i've heard that my whole life, but i really need to experience my dick in her ass. i know i'm missing out. i know how tight it will feel. i've got to figure out how to convince her. help please!!!
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Anal is a tough thing to get women to do regardless of your size. The fact is that it hurts most of us...a lot. There are girls that love anal to death, but they are few and far between. Your average woman is going to be too scared to go through with it. To put things in perspective, a first time anal experience feels like someone is taking their fists and shoving it in your ass. In the end, the woman feels like all of her shit is going to fall straight out of her asshole, and she has the urge to walk like she just road a horse for a week straight. It just hurts, okay?
The first time my husband (boyfriend at the time) convinced me to try anal, it was because I wasn't willing to have vaginal sex. That was my compromise for him. I stopped doing it for awhile though, and the only thing that re-convinced me to try was that my husband had done far too many good things for me to turn him down. He went out of his way to see that I was happy, and I was practically forced to reward him.
Will that work for you? Not sure. It's the only way I know that works because I've experienced it myself. Don't bring up anal for awhile, but instead focus on being the being the best boyfriend ever. When you've done enough, bring it up casually and see what she says. If it's a yes, be sure to use lots of lube and play with her pussy while you go in. The playing is key to helping her relax. Once she is relaxed, she will be able to take all of you in.
Good luck! I'm writing this at 5 am, so sorry if there are tons of typos I missed :) Back to bed...zzzzz
Jmiles / Man / Likes Men / Single
First time when I tried to make my girlfriend to give up the butt, she got very angry. There was no way for me to convince her to do anal. Then I hit on this book called Jack's Anal Persuasion on web. Sounds crazy, but this book changed my life forever. And yes, not only that you will make her do anal but it will change your mindset INSTANTLY. My lady now adores anal sex. Check it out, it will definitely work for you too!
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