Hi. I'm a college student and I'm openly gay for 3 months now. My cuurent (first) partner wants me to do anal. He is black, and I am white. He's also a very big man,(6'2" 220 and I'm 5'7" 170) and I'm afraid he might overpower me.I've gone down on him many times (he's big, about 9 inches) but I don't think I can't handle his gurth. I have always received in our relationship and I don't want to dissapoint him.
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Tango121 / Woman / Likes Men / Married
Sex is supposed to be all about pleasure. It is only normal that you don't want to dissapoint your partner, but it won't work if one of you guys isn't enjoying it. It is all about giving and receiving pleasure, and enjoying both. Now, my advice is that you talk to your partner so you can both work it out together. Usually, good lubrication is the key to successful anal sex. You guys can try anal masturbation first, with a good lubricant, maybe a sex toy, whatever can help dilation and prepare the anus for what's coming next. This will make things much easier and pleasant. Good luck!
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
to be honest, you just should sit him down and talk. i believe the majority of ur discomfort is in ur head due to uncertainty.
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