My boyfriend asked me the other day if I would have anal sex with him and I said I don't know haha I'd have to get back to you on that one and he was totally excepting of that answer which is great but I really want to try it .... But I'm scared that I'm going to do something "crap on his dick" and well if I do that I'd probably wanna go light myself on fire ... Not actually but that'd how I would feel . Any advice as to not having that happen to me ?
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Wec4ever / 20 / Man / Likes Transexuals / In a relationship
just shit as much as possiable. make sure its all clean. have a empty stomach so you know nothing well fart out. and tell him to go slow
12GAUGE · First time Anal can be absolutely wonderful or completely disastrous. It's all in the preparation. 1)You will want to be absolutely SQUEEKY CLEAN. That means several enemas. I say several because sometimes one enema just doesn't get the job done. An enema is similar to a vaginal deuche and not all painful if you relax, use some lube, go slow and use warm water. Once you think you're ready it's time for the next step. 2) Without your bf there try inserting just your finger into your Rosebud after lubing your finger and your bottom as well. A good position for this is laying on your left or right side. Pull your legs up to your tummy and relax and breathe deeply. Remember to go slow and use plenty of lube. This is pleasure you are seeking. Once you have wormed in a finger to the 1st or 2nd knuckle just leave it there without moving till you get used to it. Then you might try either an in and out motion or the 'come hither' movement. The 'come hither' movement is said to work VERY WELL on a man as it stimulates the Prostate. The Prostate in a man is similar to the G-Spot in a woman. Correct stimulation of the Prostate can bring extremely intense orgasms in men without ever touching his dick or sac. (something you might consider in the future) Always remember to GO SLOW and use PLENTY OF LUBE. 3) Once you are comfortable with a finger inside your Browneye you might want to try a small vibrator or small dong/dildo. By small I mean nothing larger than 3/4 to one inch diameter by three to five inches long. (Myself I prefer dildos with built in vibrators.) Again going very slow just press against your bottom with firm even pressure. Using a vibrator can ease entry+it feels very nice. Once it is inside your bottom half an inch to an inch just hold it there while you get used to it. If it doesn't feel good just let it slip out and try again or wait and try again later. If it does feel good turn the vibrator up and slide it in a wee bit more. Continue like this till you have 2 or 3 inches inside of you. Now something I REALLY LOVE TO DO is give the toy a quarter to half a spin on both in and out strokes. Try it and you will see what I mean. If all of this is starting to feel wonderful diddle your clit simultaneously. It really spices up solo sex...I know as I have been enjoying anal sex as a Man for more than 10 years. Truth be told when I'm going at it I could care less if I have a boner or not. Did you know that there are like 50,000 nerve endings in ones anus?? Way more than in a cock or pussy.....:D At any rate I hope this info is useful for you. Anal sex can be extremely pleasurable for a woman but most women have to be dripping wet aroused. That means you've already had several to numerous orgasms, you're bathed in sweat and you're just begging for it. Another angle you might want to try is having your man spank your fanny during sex as it opens the door to more pleasure for the both of you. I'm a novice at BDSM but everything I've tried thus far has been a REAL EYE OPENER and almost to fantastic to express in written or oral form. Just remember the Golden Rules of anal sex. Cleanliness. LUBE. Relax. Go slow. Deep breathing. Lube. Be Gentle. Lube. Patience. (Costco 4 batteries..lol) Lube. Good Luck and Happy Motoring.
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