If a guy doesn't give anything of himself apart from his wallet is it still cheating?
If his heart belongs to his wife and he's never had sex with anyone but his wife is it cheating if he spends his extra cash on another woman? His family do NOT go without his attention or without financial support he just uses his "pocket money" on another female.
Thoughts please :-)
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Megan / 21 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Married
I happen to think emotional cheating can be just as bad as physical cheating.
But spending money on another woman, while a bit shady, doesn't really qualify as cheating unless he actually has feelings for that woman. But... Truth be told, if I found out my husband was secretly buying things and spending tons of money on some random girl who I had never met, I think I'd get pretty upset.
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ok, in simple terms, yes he's cheating. there is emotional, physical, and financial cheating. emotional would be if you and i were talking and we were discussing 'what if's' about sex/dating w/each other as if we wanted to do it truly. physical cheating would be if you and i met up specifically to be intimate w/ each other. and financial cheating would be you buying me anything other than 'friendly kick-knacks'.
Thor / 47 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Yup, its cheating.
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Thank you Megan :-)
I think i'd have similar feelings if it was Pikey.
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
But is it not the same as a guy just pissing his wages up the wall or losing it all on a horse?
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · it IS the same. it just doesn't have the same connotations. for example- pikey spends a ton of extra cash on shoes or on a girl. either way you'll be peeved, but which would you be more angry about, the shoes or the girl? and if you say the shoes you're just a flat out LIAR!!!!
GG · Nooo i'd never be angry at expenditure on shoes lol. You're damn right i'd be pissed off but i would have to look to myself if he did start to do that. Surely the vast majority of men/women looking for outside gratification only do so because their partners wont/can't give them what they want or need?
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · sadly, yes. but honestly, NO ONE will admit they AREN'T fulfilling their partner. NO ONE. i try to w/ my girl, but she at times pushes me away.=/
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