ok, i'm gonna ask this here- what are all of your opinions on nude photos? in general? here's the situation- i have a friend that i was sending nude photos to, and she was sending me pics too. today i went to breakfast w/ my ex, and i admitted to this when she brought it up. she became very upset. what i want to know is- what is your opinion of sending and recieving nude photos? my ex sees it as freely sharing things that are private while i see them as teasers, meaning 'look what you can't have'...
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Megan / 21 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Married
I love nude photos, as long as I have a say over who get's to see them. It used to make me laugh when I would put up a picture of some boobs or an ass and people would AUTOMATICALLY assume it was me lol, I never even said it was...you gotta read between the lines :P
Sending and receiving nude photos through cell phones doesn't seem like a big deal, but I'm kind of a whore so that should come to no surprise for no one. But I can see how it can be misinterpreted as "Unfair teasing", unless that person your sending them too get's to actually see you naked on a regular basis, it's very easy to jump to that conclusion.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · my dillemma is that the woman who gets me semi-regular doesn't like the woman that i sent photos to who has NEVER gotten me!
Megan · Hm, well I can't lie Adrian...I see her point. When your with someone, it kinda becomes an un-spoken agreement that the only person you will be involved in any sexual matter with is him/her. If I found out my husband was sending photos of his cock to his Ex-girlfriend or something, I might get a bit jealous. Posting on some random website is different, but personally sending it to them can give the wrong impression.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true. valid points. however, my EX was the one that decided to break up with me over 2 months ago, and as of yet STILL has not taken me back! i whole-heartedly support the un-spoken agreement, however it isn't valid right now, is it?
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · so far it seems one and a half in support of my decision, and half against my decision....
Megan · OMG..I'm such a lazy idiot, I completely misread the part where you said she had broken up with you, I thought you were implying you got back together with her! forgive my ignorance Adrian, and ignore my original answer :P
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Personally i think if your ex doesn't like the girl you have been swapping pics with, tough shit. She's your ex, end of. What business is it of your ex's what you get up to? You are over and she no longer has the right to get annoyed or jealous.
Rock on Adrian i say. Tease that girl and if you get a hard on doing it, can it be a bad thing??
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · lol! =P
Resch85 / 26 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
If its your ex who has the problem with it then I wouldn't worry about it. My fiance and I have swapped pics with other guys and couples but its always been consensual and we're both ok with it
Browser / 25 / Man / Likes Women / Single
I just think it's risky. Once something is out there, it's out there, you can get it back. What if you fall out with your girl, and she decided to upload some photos to the web in spite? Just my two. Though knowing Adrian, he probably wouldn't give a damn!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true. honestly, what's done is done. =P
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