My best friend had to deepthroat to get into sorority

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My best friend got into the top sorority on campus, but she had to deepthroat a fraternity brother for five minutes to do so. She told me that she and another girl had been accepted. They went to a party, then lead to a corner. She was told to unzip the chosen brother and deepthroat his dick. My friend sucked on him until he was hard, then was just able to deepthroat him. The other girl tried to, but she couldn't take him all the way down and was then rejected from the sorority.

I was horrified when I heard this, my friend said I was making too much out of it. It was just a dick and he didn't cum. She thinks she can get me into the sorority next year, but I really don't want to have to suck on a strangers dick to do so.

My friend said that the connections the sorority can give are priceless and she's right. So I don't want too, but I don't know what choice I have if I want to get into the upper halls of power so to speak. I don't have a boyfriend currently and my friend has offered to help me with the deepthroating part. I took her up on the offer and had the weirdest evening of my life last night.

I went to her place and after two glasses of wine, her boyfriend showed up. She unzipped him and I performed oral sex on him for almost 30 minutes and I am nowhere near close to deepthroating him. To make matters worse, as I was doing my best, he shot his load down my throat and I puked on his dick, lap, sofa and their carpet. I cried a little and left. There's no way I'm going to go through a whole summer of this. I'm angry and sad and don't know what to do.

My friend told me to come back when I'm ready and she will promise he wouldn't cum again like that. I just don't feel comfortable and a part of me wishes I could ask another sorority sister if this was true or if I was being fooled. The problem is, I'm worried that if it is true, I might ruin my shot of getting in by talking too much about it.

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AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 24 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

For one, I can tell you as a successful college student that sorority association doesn't really mean a whole lot in the real world. I know there is a big hype about it, but really, it's not that big of a deal. You don't HAVE to be in one.

With that said, I know the pressure involved here, so I understand that you want to do whatever it takes to get into this place. I don't think it's even remotely just for you to have to deepthroat some guy to do it, and if your chances of getting in weren't on the line, I would seriously report such an act to campus authorities. You won't because you want in, but again, that's an option.

That sucks about your friend's boyfriend. Guys who are reading this should note that women like a forewarning before you're about to cum. My husband just taps me on the head so I can prepare to swallow, jack him off, or whatever is the case at the time. A warm Elmer's glue like substance is not exactly something to have thrown in your mouth unexpectedly.

As for suggestions, if you want to learn to deepthroat, practice with dildos. They're the same size and shape, but they don't randomly cum :) You can even train yourself by working with a little one and then gradually getting bigger until you can handle something huge. Just stick it in your mouth as far as you can and hold it there for awhile. Do this repetitively until you can start pulling it in and out to that point without problems. Then move on up :)

Other than that, you can hope that there will be no deepthroating involved, and if there is, just say you aren't interested. Life moves on past the sororities hun, and do you really want to be a part of something that will force other girls like you to do that? I'm not trying to stop you...you can do what you want. Just think things over thoroughly and ignore whatever pressure may be pointing you in a certain direction.

Good luck :)

almost 4 years ago · 1 Like
jMarie
jMarie / 28 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

Yeah, it's one thing to do it because you want to. But a sorority that makes you deepthroat a stranger to be admitted is nothing you want to be a part of. There are tons of sororities out there that have different criteria and priorities. Find one that is based on academic achievement and you will go much farther. Trust me.

over 2 years ago · 1 Like
Honestnotmean
Honestnotmean / Man / Likes Women / Single

Im in an ivy-league fraternity and even i now know that being in a greek organization by no means guarantees that you will get a job. Idc how cool you think your Fraternity/Sorority is. Sororites and Fraternities that partake in this behavior are disgusting and are a disgrace to all Greek life and colleges alike. Sucking a dick does not constitute a ritual it proves that your a desperate whore. I can't believe what i'm reading...This demonstrates how girls will literally do anything for power. Unless your being raped or drugged, there is no excuse for "downing" a non-bf male because you were told to...This makes you an absolute whore. Similarly if you have a have a bf during this, your a cheating, lying piece of shit whore. Have some self-respect.

about 2 years ago
Phatmanswingin
Phatmanswingin / 50 / Man / Likes Women / Married

Don't ever do anything sexually that you're not comfortable trying/doing. Fuck the college Greeks!

almost 2 years ago
Brian Long
Brian / Man / Likes Women / Single

Women have it tough. Anything sexual can be a turn on, even if its physically/emotionally painful or degrading. This can create confusion and distress over time, causing a girl to do things she doesn't understand why she simultaneously likes, and hates.

This is a good example. In my opinion, the only reason to suck a man's dick is because you want to. Not rocket science. Now, some women (believe it or not), like the idea of sucking off a stranger, assuming he's attractive (and clean, though thats virtually impossible to confirm in such a situation). Few discuss it (who would?), and not all ever do it. I've had my dick sucked by women who just met me. But I'm a guy who is genuinely respectful, healthy, kind, and well endowed. Perfect for such a woman.. but not all women even really enjoy giving head.

One reason? Their experience hasn't allowed them to. If its forced, coerced, or out of a sense of obligation.. its motivated, not inspired. Any sexual activity is best when it comes from an intrinsic desire for that act.. a magnetism.. arousal.. a primal impulse. When I suddenly want to go down on a girl, its not logical. Indeed, its when I get a clear sense she's clean, I LIKE her, and I find her incredibly sexy. I want to give her pleasure, and usually its the precursor to sex, though sex is not the focus. Pleasuring her is, in the moment.

I feel the same ought to be the case for women. Don't let this whole ordeal fuck up any enjoyment you have or may have for giving head. Deepthroating is important in my book, as it turns me on a LOT, and is a semi-dom/sub activity (can be).. yet I feel strongly that its something that should be gone into gently, by the desire/intent of the woman, and for the purpose of HER discovering if she enjoys having a man's cock down her throat. I understand it can be incredibly erotic, intimate, and feel submissive (trusting/surrendering/allowing/receiving).. which are all pluses when healthy and in a mutually respectful context.

I share all this, because you COULD rock this out and enjoy it. Now, sure.. you may not want the reputation of a slut, or to be affiliated with a sorority the frat boys think they can throat fuck whenever they want. Great fantasy, but its hazing, not slut training. There are places for that and they're called BDSM clubs.

If you want advice on this, I'm happy to discuss. I can help you learn how to deepthroat (taught a good number of women), and also how to get your head around the situation if you're going to go through with it. It'd be much better to come out of it with respect than to be ridiculed or rejected. In the latter case, better to go for another sorority or report the bitches (frat participants included).

about 2 years ago
12GAUGE
12GAUGE / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

I'm no Ivy Leaguer, just a simple country boy. I'm not going to speak to the issues here just because...Now this is JMHO but every woman that ever gave me head was never able to make me cum. My last gf however was an expert and I ALWAYS shot my wad with her. She was sooooo good at sex she could have wrote the Book of The Kama Sutra. Unless a woman is just sucking a guy to an erection so they can bone I've always thot Good Head means a good finish. And the good finish is the guy blowing his nut. You done goot there gal. There's LOTS of women who can't give head for shit. Still more who will give head but at a price. A loving woman, and a good woman who loves or is very fond of her Man often loves to give her Man this sacred gift. You should be proud of yourself. The fact that you had to 'pay your dues' to get into this sorority by demeaning yourself somewhat is a bummer I understand that. Life is full of surprises and crosses we got to bear. It's called sucking it up (NO pun intended). With guys the phrase is to Man Up. I wouldn't call you a whore like MrHonest did, probably cuz I'm NOT the ass he is. Tho as one or 2 folks said already why not try a sorority with a bit more class? After all are you there to partay the next 4 years or earn a degree and land a high paying job and rewarding career?

about 2 years ago
Duke
Duke / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

It may have helped if you were more prepared to swallow. Or, just take a facial.
That might have gotten you into the sorority. Good luck next time.

almost 2 years ago
Rage
Rage / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single

I have to agree With all you ladies here; That is bullshit. If the sorority won't accept you until you are forced into something that will make you feel personally degraded, just so they can watch, it's not a group you want to join. You want connections? Network yourself. Used LinkedIn, get with businesses that are related to your target degree- don't go choking on some guy's cock thinking it'll better your future. That's how you find yourself posted on some college blog...

over 2 years ago
Jay31
Jay31 / 33 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Dang that wild .

over 1 year ago
Tylon
Tylon / Man / Likes Men / Single

btw, deep throat basically deprives you of air, 5 minutes, you'd pass out. so either it's not deepthroat, or their stopwatch is broken, or someone passed out.

almost 3 years ago
Tylon
Tylon / Man / Likes Men / Single

maybe its like a pyramid scheme - why should they stop when they had to do it? might be the thinking. also, if they didnt like it and you go through the same thing you've both bonded over surviving/overcoming some adverse trial and are closer for it (like all hazing rituals, which seem to be fairly common in many tribes as well, usually something painful or scary, check out traditions in many tribal societies). it's up to you if you dont want to do it, but perhaps the reasons the sorority's connections are so strong is because of this effect of surviving adversity together. stupid way to do that, but check out management 'retreats' where bunches of people get together and do dumbass stuff like trying to get a huge rock up a hill together, or survive some other outdoor trial or otherwise. seems pretty common. you dont have to do it, obviously but the sorority probably wont accept you.. (perhaps offer some other trial that's more palatable?)

almost 3 years ago
Justanotherbloke
Justanotherbloke / Woman / Likes Men / Single

In my point of view, its kind of similar to prostitution. You want to get into this particular club for the sake of all the benefits it will offer to you as its member but u do this by sucking cock? you become nothing more than a piece of meat. as a college student you have to be critical of things happening around and ask yourself if its really right. No right thinking club/organisation/group would ask such a thing from its members.....unless its a cocksucking enthusiast group who just wants to see if you can suck a cock but i doubt that is the case of this sorority you're trying to join....

Davide

over 3 years ago
Lifesuckssometimes
Lifesuckssometimes / Woman / Likes Men / Single

It's called "Downing" and I had to do it last year. I was the third girl on the guy's pole and unfortunately for me, he shot his load just as I deep throated. I don't think it was an "accident" since he chose the order we sucked and was thrusting like crazy as I was going down on him. Thank God I didn't have to taste it though.

I got into the sorority and am accepted by my sisters, but I think it's bullshit. I would tell you to seriously consider reporting this. I didn't because my sister is also in the sorority and I didn't want to screw things up.

My boyfriend picked me up for a date right after I did this and as we kissed, the only thing I could think of was that another man's dick had been in my mouth half an hour before. And that I was digesting his sperm in my stomach as we went out to dinner.

It's not cool and not right. I understand some of the games and stuff, but this is going too far.

I'm also surprised that no other girl has posted a comment. That's because its true and I can understand their scared about being kicked out for breaking a secret.

Girls, this is BULLSHIT!!!!

almost 4 years ago
Phoetus
Phoetus / Man / Likes Women / Single

How stupid are you people? The Greek system exists to generate blowjobs. Frat boys use stupid sluts who will turn out their friends like the dumb-assed whores that they are. How do you think sororities got started?

over 1 year ago
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