I need some advice. A few days ago I stayed over at my girlfriends place. We've been together about 4 months and she's great. I got a little snoopy after she went to work and looked in her nightstand drawer and found a porn dvd. Tt was called solo studs and was pretty much videos of individual guys jacking off. I think its gay porn. I was pretty shocked but didn't say anything when she got home. Here is what is bugging me. The guys in that video are all muscle bound guys jacking off their big dicks. However I'm pretty much average in all catergories ( if you know what I mean) Honestly..I think it is gay porn..I mean everytime I've ever heard a woman talk about jacking off ( male masturbation) it is usually like an insult of a joke. What kind of woman would be interested in that? I don't know...I really bugs me though. Also there is the whole thing about snooping. I shouldn't have done it but think I should tell her. What should I do? Ignore it? Get in her face about it? It's not like I'm a prude and have a big problem with porn or anything..but jack off shows?
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Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
That's what you get for snooping around bro: Mind your own business.
Anyway, it's not like she's masturbating to midgets having sex with animals, you know? Women have their fantasies just like dudes do, and she has every right to exercise hers as she wishes.
Think about how much more upset you'd be if these guys were more like you physically. Have you ever thought about that? I'd take it easy if I were you. I'm sure you don't masturbate to your girlfriend every night.
About you snooping? Keep your mouth shut and don't do it again. Most people would tell you, "Be honest with her" - but all that'll do is start a fight. Unless you plan on marrying the girl you should definitely not say anything, but considering you've already asked these questions your conscience is obviously getting the best of you. I'm sure you'll talk to her about it but be prepared for her to rip you to pieces for invading her privacy, as it's deserved.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Snooping is natural, in my opinion. I do it too. What you found though shouldn't startle you. There is a lot worse out there than gay porn.
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