After each time I finger using two fingers my vagina feels pretty sore and it's not very pleasant, I'm also worried that when I start having sex that it'll hurt me too much and neither me or my partner will be satisfied. Am I just flat out too tight? (if so how can I loosen up a bit) is there something I can do to keep it from hurting...pretty much, how do I stop it?
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Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
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Jalpha12 / 20 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Your just going to have to take it easy and slow :)
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Alexis,remember that sex and satisfaction comes in many many many forms.
Sex is, mental, spiritual, physical, emotional. Your sexual organs are your breasts, your skin, your eyes, your skin, your voice, your breath, your vagina., your ass.
Your vagina and his penis are only part of the picture. You nor your man should get hung up on getting in there before your ready. While you learn about your own body,
which by the way means you need to explore various things concerning your little kitten, you can explore the other aspects of your relationship.
How much lube are you using? Do you get very wet on your own? Have you tried any toys?
AS jalpha said you need to take it sloooow and easy.
now, as to your kitten, she may need your mind to be present as well. Next time you play with yourself, Try to be present with your body. Are you tense? Are you breathing? NO? then work to get there. Are you in a place where you can do this with out worry of interruptions? You look young, and so i imagine you may not have the best privacy? Choose the right time to practice. and explore.
Alias / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Alexis, it's like Otto said: your vagina and his penis are only part of the picture. There are a lot more things to explore. Who knows what turns your body on. Find out. And if you don't find anything that gets your body going and you really want sex (or you want to masturbate), just use lube. I know it feels really embarrassing the first time you go into a shop to buy it, but trust me... IT IS WORTH IT!
PS: All guys will agree: there's no such thing as being too tight. Just make sure you take it slow and don't hurt yourself. Being relaxed is what it is all about.
Bay / Man / Likes Women / Married
use only 1 finger ur just flat out 2 tight
Andypandy / 45 / Man / Likes Women / Married
quit
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