So I've been together with this girl for over a year now. I recently learned that she masturbates occasionally. She won't tell me exactly how often, but it seems like it's a couple times a month.
Unfortunately, I'm kind of an insecure guy, and I get paranoid about a lot of things. So naturally, I wonder what she thinks about when she masturbates. The thing is, she is bi, and she has made it obvious that she finds females far more attractive. The thing that keeps her with guys is that she wants kids someday.
I'm afraid that all she will think about is girls she knows, and I wouldn't be too happy about that.
HOWEVER, I told her that I would love to watch her masturbate. And I also thought about possibly introducing porn to her, preferably lesbian porn. I feel like if I have control over what she's thinking about, I'll feel a little better. Plus, that would turn both of us on like crazy. However, she has made it clear that porn is not her thing.
So, this is basically 2 questions:
1. Should I be worried that she masturbates at all, for any reason?
2. Any way I could persuade her to watch porn while doing so?