Okay, so I've never masturbated with any lube before. Is that by any means weird? (Cause it seems most people do use it)
My question is, what kind of lube is preferred, and which you think works best from experience?
Also, what kind of lube can I purchase out there which won't make it so obvious that I bought it for self-pleasure purposes :P (E.g Cream for wounds?) I don't quite like the idea of oil related lubes though.
Sorry if I sound like a complete idiot, hah!
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Andy is usually the one that answers the lube questions. I'll try to telepathically tell him to get on. Lol
Chinkviolator / Man / Likes Women / Single
So how does this telepathic thing with Andy work again? Haha.
AskMyGF · Lol, he's not returning my mental signals. Ass hole. :-P
Chinkviolator · I shall therefore wait patiently, for he is afterall, the chosen one...
AskMyGF · Lol, indeed :-P
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · Ok, I'll chip in. You can basically use 2 types of lubes. Oil based, water based and silicone based. Oil based are pretty traditional but are an absolute no-no for condom use. For choking the chicken though it's fine. However, being oil based it is a bitch to wash off. Water based tend to be the most tolerated for multiple uses. Some of them like KY were developed initially for medical use and the marketing people got a hold of it and now it's what it is. Water based lubes while good for most applications do dry out faster and you might need to apply more or add some water to reactivate the lubrication qualities otherwise it goes all sticky. Silicone tends to last the longest without drying out but I'm not convinced it is totally safe for anal use as some anecdotal evidence has shown change in blood chemistry after prolonged usage. Actually, water based lube does as well but more related to liver function and triglyceride levels. This will be of no consequence to you as all you want to do is clear the tanks. I do recommend you check if you can get pure shea butter with no added scents or ingredients. This makes a fantastic lube, is all natural and if the folks find it, its one of the best moisturisers around ;) Now what I do suggest though is test a little on the inside of your elbow and leave it there for about 30 min. If you don't develop an itch or redness then play away!
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · WTF, I meant 3 types... Arggg, what is happening to me!!
AskMyGF · Mind melt.And thanks Adrian. you saved the day :) My hero. Lol
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · Awww (blush) :D
Chinkviolator · You truly are by your name, the Medical Wizard. What an insight! Haha, I thank you. So Shea Butter's the one? I've never seen it in my country though. Where can this be found? Any notable stores which can be found around the world? And are there any other more notable lubricants around? It doesn't have to be the best. Just an alternative :)
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · No prob. What we're here for. You should be able to find them in natural beauty shops like L'Occitane, or bodyshop and so on. There is another one I remember called Sylk or something like that. It's all natural so should be good too. That one should be available in a pharmacy.
Chinkviolator · Bodyshop you say? There's one 3 bus stops down! I'll sure to be there asap to purchase it off the shelf! haha!
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · I'm pretty sure they should have it. It's just a matter of time then.... Just remember to take breaks in between sessions :D
Chinkviolator · Aye, Sir!
AskMyGF · AMS's name is Adrian, but the Adrian on the site is another person entirely.
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · HA HA. There are actually 2 Adrians here. Adrian and AMS who is also named Adrian but to save confusion still sticks to AMS :D
AskMyGF · I prefer to refer to people by their names, so I'm usually the only one that calls AMS Adrian. The only one I don't call by name is Ericson, and that is because I came up with the name Thor...lol.
AMS (the Medical Mizard ) · Yes McMurphy, we would come visit and keep Nurse Ratched in line... LOL
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