I'm a single male aged 23, i masturbate a lot and sometimes i have an urge for masturbation even if i'm sexually not aroused.
Its frustating because sometimes i wont get slep unless and untill i masturbate and i'm also not sexually aroused at that time, i will have to imagine, watch hot videos or whatever to get aroused and then masturbate.
Why is there a disconnection between my desire and arousal? What should i do to avoid this?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
To me it sounds like your sort of addicted. The masturbation has become a habit, not something to do for fun. As much as it may be keeping you up, I would try to avoid masturbation until you have to do it. Perhaps reduce the amount of times you do it in a day or week until you just do it once every other day. I think that may help build up the sensitivity and get you out of a routine. Try different things with your masturabtion, like a new toy or something. If you switch it up and break the habit enough, I think your desire will come back.
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