I gave my friend a blow job recently, actually on December 15th. At first i was super nervous. I made him cover his head with a towel, but then after I got used to what was going on I let him take off the towel, now the reason I wanted him to cover his eyes was I was scared of his reaction since it was the first time for him to see someone doing something like this to him. In the end it was a great experience for me. I felt in control and confident for once.
Now That was the first time but a few days after Christmas we tried one more time. Both times we stopped after he cummed. He cummed after about 20-30 min each time. This second time he cummed on my face but the first time it was in my mouth and I actually spit it out. Not because of the taste because i wasn't prepared for how fast it came. He did warn me but still i was unprepared.
HE IS ONLY MY FRIEND, and neither of us have any means to be together, but we definitely joke about it.... I wasn't planning on doing it again since we are just friends. But today he mentioned next time... So now i'm thinking I would like to try again just for more experience.
SHOULD I?????
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Alias / 23 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
If you're 15, you're old enough to do whatever you want. But make sure you know what you want (gaining experience, getting arroused...). Also make sure you know when to quit. If you keep doing this, he'll take it for granted and he'll come to you even when you don't want to. Don't go that way. If it starts feeling awkward at any time, STOP. But until that time... you go girl!
Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
"SHOULD" you? You should do whatever you want, but I suggest you be clear on why you want to. "Friends with benefits" is fine if you can handle it, but I find his "next time" comment suspicious.... almost as if he's assuming you're going to be his "go-to-girl" for blowjobs.... I think it's great that you can enjoy giving one for its own sake (too many women look at it as a chore) but if this becomes a regular thing, how long is it going to take before it get's old? How long before it occurs to you that even "friends with benefits" return the favor? If you do continue with this, see if he's willing to go down on you without getting anything for himself once in a while....
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i second ALL of the ideas in this post!
.smile.4.me. · He actually wants to try fingering. I'm not sure if i'm up for that. I think it's the fear and nerves that is holding me back.
Noname1970 · Based on your reply, I'm guessing you're on the young side and/or rather inexperienced. Are you a virgin? Is engaging in any sort of sexuality fairly new to you? Were these the first blowjobs you ever gave? If so, that doesn't change my advice, but it does make me emphasize the importance of being clear on why you're engaging in this with him.
.smile.4.me. · Well I just turned 15, 2 days ago..
.smile.4.me. · And Yes I am a virgin, I dont (intend) on losing it till Marrige. I actually have a younger sister who is VERY sexually active not that I support her one percent. But as you say I am fairly inexpierenced, still learning I guess.
Noname1970 · I hate to reverse myself or sound old and "fatherly," but considering your age, and more importantly, the fact that you're concerned enough to be asking about this in the first place, it seems pretty obvious that you're NOT clear on why you're doing this. I advise you back off until you are.
.smile.4.me. · I see what you saying. It dosent seem like bad advice. I'm not planning on doing anything for awile. So thank you for the advisement! :)
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · true. =/ sad to say, BUT if ur askin on a site like this, AND you aren't sure of WHAT you want, i say DO NOT proceed! sexual ANYTHING usually leads to feelings on one or both sides.
Alf / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Dam, where were friends like you when I was in school?
Megan / 21 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Married
Well this to me sounds like "Freinds with benefits" and I'm all for it.
However, be very careful. Performing a sexual act on someone that you don't necessarily have "feelings" for could lead to you both growing a connection with each other, just be sure that you really do think of him as a "friend" and nothing more.
Should you do it again? if you both enjoyed it the first 2 times, why not? :)
.smile.4.me. · Thanks, i've got an idea of what to do now.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · what megan says is true. if you enjoyed it, then no reason why u shouldn't again! however, u must be VERY careful, as this usually results in growing a relatonship that may or may not cause you trouble or great joy. it' a flip of a coin.
.smile.4.me. · I'm hoping no trouble comes from it and yes I did enjoy it. I especially enjoyed it the first time. The second time was a little "ify". Anyway thank you for that advice.
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