Hi there,
my boyfriend wants to go down on me, but I am very self conscious. I'm scared he will find it gross or something afterwards. I make sure to be clean but I can't run and do something to make sure I'm clean right before, it might ruin the mood. Any advice? Thankyou in advance.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Shave or trim that area because a lot of funk can get trapped in your pubes. You'll be much more confident if you have a smooth or semi-smooth patch because you won't worry about the cleanliness. If HE wants to go down on YOU, I'd let him regardless of your concerns. A lot of guys won't make the first move, so chances are he'll like it no matter what happens. Stop worrying and just try it. You'll have fun, I promise.
Oldman / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I am a guy who is a bit older and I greatly enjoys going down on a woman. For me I enjoy being able to give her sensations that I could not with my hand/fingers. In honestly, I enjoy the sent of an arroused lady. It reassures me she is enjoying it, and well, I just don't mind it. If you do a quick cleanup, that should be fine, just keep in mind that anything you use to clean yourself with may leave a taste behind that is not you. Just food for thought. (I don't relish the taste of feminie wipes all that much). Do not let your self consciousness get in the way, I am sure he has thought about what he may encounter and seems to be good with it. (Don't be surprised if he spends some time admiring you down there before getting to business.) Also, my preference is for the woman to be clean shaven, or at least close cut, that way I can suck, nibble, and lick my way around without all the flossing that would otherwise happen. One last thing, if you are not sure of how he like things like that, just ask him. We love it when we can talk about what and how we like it. Have fun!!!!
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