How do u recommend getting my girlfriend to watch bukkake with me. It turns me on very much. I am always watching it in secret. Some with girls getting over 50 loads and then drinking it all. I don't think she has any clue of this fetish i have. I am afraid if she is disgusted, it might hurt our relationship. I'd love it if she would be into it.
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Heavenlyfollower / Woman / Likes Men / Single
the only way to address fetishes is to talk about them, fetishes are very much apart of sex period, its old world thinking (1950's) that made them socially unacceptable. They wouldn't exist in us or have evolved if they weren't natural. Fetishes have to do with genetics, and what your genetics crave in a partner to create the strongest baby.
For instance the rape fetish i believe exists in those with low self confidence and is a byproduct of the cave man days where sometimes agression was needed in order to reproduce. The feeling of wanting a to rape a woman has to do with the population not wanting your genes, then your body trying to fight the feeling of not being wanted in the genepool. so unnecissary aggression is needed.
I will say this 100x on this site
"if you can't talk about sex, you shouldn't be having it"
plain and simple. If sex isn't what makes your relationship, anything you tell her sexually she will atleast try or be okay with, this doesn't mean she has to engage in it though, and thats your choice from that point if you want to stay with her, or find a bukkake loving gal, but you have to give her that choice first.
The worst thing that can happen is she gets grossed out and judges you, and puts you down for it.... at that point why would you want to be with her...
The best thing that can happen is she starts watching "bukkake bonanza" movies with you, and you two start saving your cum in jars in the freezer for special occasions ;-)
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I would start with something much less intense, like giving her a facial or jizzing on her tits. When she's cool with that, you may suggest doing a little more. You have to let her get used to it though. Ask if she'll swallow during a blow job, and if she's cool with that, then you could maybe get her to drink a tub of cum in time. It's just a matter of progression. If she doesn't want to do any of tis, you can accept it or find someone that does. Easy as that.
good luck :)
Mr / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Thanks Heaven, but my initial question was just concerning getting her to watch the videos. i am pretty sure she has not even seen some of the stuff i have. To me, a video with a girl blowing 5 guys and swallowing every load is pretty normal, an it goes up from there, to bukkake. I doubt she has seen even the 5 guy type scene.
Of course if i could get her to also want to drink a tub of cum, then ya, thatt would be a great success. But first simply watching the vids with me would be great.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
OHHH! Haha, I misread that entirely. Dur. Ya, then I would sort of do the same thing by introducing her to more mild videos and working your way up. Most girls become more acclimated with their partner's fetishes the more they see them. I've seen my fair share of porn now, so nothing really fazes me. In time, she will be the same way.
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