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Question Asked by Heda 11 months ago - [ Ask a Question ]
Whenever I watch those pornos where the girls deep throat and gag on cock it makes me want to vomit (literally). But, my guy loves it!!! I've tried satisfying him orally, using almost all of the techniques, and while he seems to like what I do, I think he's just being nice about it and doesn't want to admit out loud that it's not enough. Whenever he watches this deep gag porn, his hormones are on overdrive and our sex becomes exciting. I don't want to lose this guy, so how can I prepare myself to choke on his dick?
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First you need to relax your jaw a lot. Its not so much choking on it, but placing the whole thing in and just sucking it off. Continue with your usual techniques, but every few minutes put it in your mouth all the way down so he is fully in you and suck it quickly so that you don't choke. Eventually he will get excited enough you can stop and just have sex. If it still is making you gag try having a drink before to relax yourself and take your mind off of it. It really is all mind over matter and in the end your jaw will adapt to the feeling.
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by ExoKisa 11 months ago
I think the best way to prepare yourself to choke on a cock is to have an orgasm or at least get really turned on beforehand. Make him help, use a toy, have him watch, whatever turns you on. When it's his turn, you'll be ready to please. In the beginning, you're going to want to control how deep his penis goes. Let it go just past the comfort zone, but not so far past it that you're going to puke. Regardless what kind of sounds come out of you, don't worry, he probably won't be bothered by it if you seem into it. Remember to breathe when you get a chance. No matter what, he should be very happy that you tried.
by burton 10 months ago
Hey, if you don't like it or want to do it, why not just go ahead and vomit on his cock. Maybe he'll be so disgusted he won't want to go that far again.
Possible, right... ?
by zennsketch 10 months ago
If you really want to try gagging on his cock, all you really need to do is practice your deepthroating ability. You can do so with things like popsicles and bananas, as they don't cause irritation to your throat. When you feel like you're going to gag, just relax your throat and focus on something else in your mind.
It takes time and alot of practice to accomplish, but your gag reflex can be trained.
But from the sounds of it, your guy wants you to actually choke like on the pornos. You can do that as well, but honestly if he's wanting you to be a porn star, he's living in a dream world.
My suggestion is to do the choking scenario with him, and if you vomit, you vomit. What your man doesn't realize is those women in the pornos DO vomit, but you just don't see it. Gagging and choking on a penis isn't natural, and it isn't safe for the penis or the one choking, as it can cause stomach acid go into your nasal passages, as well as on his penis as well.
You should sit your man down and talk to him about your worries. If he truly loves you, you shouldn't have to do things you're not comfortable with in order to keep him.
by superdude 9 months ago
Look,first off,pornos are for one thing only,fantasizing and spanking it.I myself would be eternally grateful to just have a girlfriend who was willing to go down and didn't bitch about it when I asked her to.You man should be thrilled as hell to be getting the oral action he's getting and if he keeps pushing the issue with you,just stop sucking his dick all together.Eventually he'll get the point or if he doesn't maybe you should find some one who would appreciate your blow-job skills and you more.
by Lala 8 months ago
first of all, if the idea of this sex act disgusts you then your boyfriend needs to understand that you dont want to do it. If he loves you he'll get over it. Being in a respectful relationship is about understanding. He can't make you do something you dont wanna do and he shouldnt want you to do something you feel uncomfrotable with.
that being said, a good way to do this if youre into it is for him to kneel on all fours and you to lie under him. You stay still and he thrusts into your mouth. its good coz the pressure is off you.
by oneman123 7 months ago
Again try practicin blowing him with another object and then go deeper on it and hold it for at least 10 seconds then breathe and if it helps use your diaphram that way you can deep-throat him longer cuz as guys we love to hear a woman chokin on our dicks but then again if he pressures you to do it then don't make him earn it
by cantcatchme 5 months ago
just make sure that drink before you go to choke isn't a beer. I've found that beers in my stomach make my gag reflex worse. something about the carbonation . . .
by a guy 14 days ago
good for you, dont listen to these terrible people.
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by twittermyclitter 11 months ago
You should practice alone with something you feel comfortable using. Make sure you breathe, and exhale when you feel you are about to gag. Don't force it, just go slow. Find the depth that you are comfortable with at first then gently go further down. Eventually your body will be "trained" and not affected by it.