Question
posted 4 months ago
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I really want to be able to give oral sex but every time i try i gag. I understand about gag reflexes and all but i gag as soon as his penis touches my lips. Is there any way i can get over this?
i may be the only one who thinks this (but i know i'm right!), but honestly the mere subconscious thought of putting a foreign object (like a dick for example) may be causing you to gag.
I hate to agree with Adrian since he is an awful human being, your issue is most likely mental, not physical. Do you gag when you eat? when you eat a banana? most likely not. My guess, is that you may have been surprised by a sudden poke?
can you brush your tongue and not gag? First thing to think about is, do you trust your partner and can you tell him to let you take control of the BJ all together? You can go at your own pace.
The next part is, mental focus. Don't think about the gagging, thing about what you want and need to do.
Take it slow my girl. take it slow. Seeems like you are anticipating something bad.
don"t forget that the most sensitive area is on the top most bulbous area of the head. and the shafts itself is only sensitive to heat. So dont worry about length of and or how much you can take in.This sites comments do seem to be filled with an odd sort of "i'm right and every one else is wrong" type of attitude.. Please remember that the only opinion is the shaft you have. Thus allow me to chime in that it's the taste buds on the tongue that create the pleasurable friction. And the "69" position and or a position that enable the flat of the tongue to excite the top of the head. and thus the suction combine will create the best pleasure. not sure how much action you have gotten via cunnilingus but it is similiar to how your clitorus is stimulated and when you feel the warmth of the tongue combined with the suction. yours is much more sensitive to over stimulation then his. and though speed with suction is a sure fire wau to release i can promise a slow rythm will be enjoyed by both. Just a suggestion.... only do it with enough strokes to have it erect. use the remaining energy for your mutual satisfaction.....unless of course your just not in the mood for the tango. ok...enough of my comments
4 months ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
dude........ i read through ur post, and while you suggested ways to improve the quality of her bj's, i notice that you ignorerd her concern of her habit to gag, while you comment about others' "i'm right and every one else is wrong" type of attitude.. i'm by no means the smartest guy (i ain't even gonna argue that........i KNOW i'm right anyway!) but that seems more of a snide comment.....
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
i may be the only one who thinks this (but i know i'm right!), but honestly the mere subconscious thought of putting a foreign object (like a dick for example) may be causing you to gag.
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
I hate to agree with Adrian since he is an awful human being, your issue is most likely mental, not physical. Do you gag when you eat? when you eat a banana? most likely not. My guess, is that you may have been surprised by a sudden poke?
can you brush your tongue and not gag? First thing to think about is, do you trust your partner and can you tell him to let you take control of the BJ all together? You can go at your own pace.
The next part is, mental focus. Don't think about the gagging, thing about what you want and need to do.
Take it slow my girl. take it slow. Seeems like you are anticipating something bad.
Only proceed from a good mental mind frame i say.
MOre info!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · hey!!!! i'm not........oh, wait........not awful.......i think........
Otto · perhaps then, you are full of awww?
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · awww? like awe at the stream of stupidity i encounter everywhere?
Otto · no more like awwwww shit run its that maniac Adrian!!!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · THAT works too!
Sweetmasoprincess / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Thnx for all the answers i will try and get better at these things
Micheal / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
don"t forget that the most sensitive area is on the top most bulbous area of the head. and the shafts itself is only sensitive to heat. So dont worry about length of and or how much you can take in.This sites comments do seem to be filled with an odd sort of "i'm right and every one else is wrong" type of attitude.. Please remember that the only opinion is the shaft you have. Thus allow me to chime in that it's the taste buds on the tongue that create the pleasurable friction. And the "69" position and or a position that enable the flat of the tongue to excite the top of the head. and thus the suction combine will create the best pleasure. not sure how much action you have gotten via cunnilingus but it is similiar to how your clitorus is stimulated and when you feel the warmth of the tongue combined with the suction. yours is much more sensitive to over stimulation then his. and though speed with suction is a sure fire wau to release i can promise a slow rythm will be enjoyed by both. Just a suggestion.... only do it with enough strokes to have it erect. use the remaining energy for your mutual satisfaction.....unless of course your just not in the mood for the tango. ok...enough of my comments
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · dude........ i read through ur post, and while you suggested ways to improve the quality of her bj's, i notice that you ignorerd her concern of her habit to gag, while you comment about others' "i'm right and every one else is wrong" type of attitude.. i'm by no means the smartest guy (i ain't even gonna argue that........i KNOW i'm right anyway!) but that seems more of a snide comment.....
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