how can i give him the best blowjob ever?

Micheal / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

always felt the only reason is to stimulate an erection. Anything else uses up the energy meant to be pleasing you. 69 enables the best stimulation because it is the bulbous portion of the head that feels the most. And with the rough taste buds... the general concensus is more or less accurate. Life is too short and dont be the slave. It's the mans job to please. The woman can help but be a man and service her. When you get on your knees your gonna be treated as less than in the relationship. When your a mother or are at least in your late 20"s or 30"s you will finally see that felatio is about power.. And dont give it away. Make him earn it. I wake my wife at least three times a week and seduce her untill she wants me. It's best when you work for it! Dont want or even like head... best place is inside that wonderland. But hey, what do i know. only been married for ten years. Do what gets you off. any other advice is just an excercise in vanity and time wasted listening to blah blah blah.

Soberfang / Man / Likes Women / Single

Just dnt think abt it dat hard becuz a BJ is a BJ it depends on the guy ur giving head 2. Me i like when she moans nd when she take it in deep. Just give it some time if nothing happens then just dnt give him a BJ its 4 him then

Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single

On the physical side, I'd say it's about variety. I like it when a woman can take all of me into her mouth and throat, but knows enough not to do only that with every pass: go half way, then a quarter of the way, then take the whole thing.... mix it up; use your imagination. Sometimes you should apply a little suction; sometimes none at all.... You should also learn how to use your tongue and lips without taking him into your mouth: kisses, licks and light sucking can be incredibly effective in between the times you slip him into your mouth.

As for his cumming, you have to be ready and comfortable but letting him do it in your mouth really is the best, and honestly, there's just nothing like hearing a woman as she swallows.... But on your face or breasts can be a real turn on too.

But the main thing, like others have said, is that YOU enjoy doing it. I don't care how good a woman's technique is, if it seems like she's just performing a task she's not in to, I'm not going to cum and I'll eventually lose interest.

Let's put it this way: mentally, it shouldn't be all that different from when I go down on a woman. No, it's not giving me physical pleasure, but simply knowing that I'm giving her pleasure, especially if it's someone I really care about, is an incredible turn on for me... having a woman wriggling, moaning and completely under my control until I've made her orgasm is its own reward and makes me feel amazing, whether I get off or not....

Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single

So santee@ have you tried any of our suggestions? things getting better?

give us an update =D

Santeezyxo · well, i gave him a handjob on saturday, a blowjob just wasnt going to happen simply because of the situation. but he came!! :) first time ever! :) , then later that night i tried a bit of oral and he told me in advance not to get discouraged if he didnt come cause he was pretty "warn out" (he had been hard alot of the day) he said i did lots better:), and we plan on hanging out for a while on wed. ill let you know how that goes! :) also, you can call me Santanna:)

Santeezyxo · and thankyou for calling me cute! :)

MrManners · was that the first time you'd seen a guy (in person) cum in front of you?

Otto · awesome Santanna! step in the right direction, far as calling you cute, the truth is pretty easy to say. =D Good luck!

Santeezyxo · uh. yeah it was! i would only ever do this stuff in a serious relationship and this is my first serious one. so yes it was! :)

Santeezyxo · And Otto, your too kind! :)

Santeezyxo · so we just hungout. and even tho we couldnt go all the way.. i did giver him oral.. and in took 5 mins and he cummed all over mee!! :)!! i had to just do it with my hand for the last part cause it was really hard and i didnt want to ruin it.. but im sooo happy!!!!:D

Mr Fit · Good job ;-)

MrManners · Awesome Girl! You're own money shot! Where did you let him shoot at? On your tits, or did you just watch him go?

Santeezyxo · uhh. my chest and neck.. i

Santeezyxo · and some got in my hair.. i honestly think its hot but he was pretty embarassed but i assured him it was A-OK! :)

MrManners · Any holiday BJ's in the future?

Noname1970 · First of all, there's no such thing as the "best" blowjob ever for a man, with the possible exception of their very first, and that's usually just because they're so excited it's finally happening.

Mrhooded · dam right about that

eJefe / Man / Likes Women / Single

Practice makes perfect and there are some good tips on here. Be warned, however that not all guys cum off of BJs all the time...I know I don't, and I've had some great givers. I think I see oral as more of a side dish than a main event, although it can be a main event also. I've cum from it, but I'd prefer to cum in a woman's pussy or ass most of the time, if I had a choice. In fact I haven't cum 100% of the time from intercourse, either.
One thing that wasn't mentioned that gives me a rockin' orgasm from oral is to stimulate the guys ass while you suck him, (if he's willing) and see how that works.
Good luck!!

Otto · yeah. stim his prostate, but just be prepared for a mega load of cum hahha

Mrhooded / Man / Likes Women / Single

Have you been getting any better with your blowjobs santeezyxo?

Tahir / Man / Likes Women / Single

enjoy urself, deeply involve in the job and during blowing try to touch ur inside cheek muscles to his penis outer walls, make pleasure noices and must use ur hands, provide hardly with uniformly.

Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single

My dear lady Santee

Every person is different. Most men are used to jacking off very vigorously, so they are used to very hard fast stimulation, he may need to learn to understand his own sexual response.

Though we are very visual (men), we also have emotional turn ons. A little build up and teasing then sucking hard while stroking his cock would be a good start. Its ok to experiment and figure out the best way to please each other. It sounds like he is unsure how to explain what he needs. Ask him to help you guide him. Something else i often recommend is to watch him masturbate, you can get a good idea of teh path to pleasure he gets. I often learn a lot from watching my woman masturbate.

one of my biggest turn ons while getting a bj is having my woman look me in the eyes and she looks like she is enjoying my penis. Your a cute young lady, use it to your advantage. suck it like its the best thing in the world and your man will feel like he is a king.

So if something doesnt work. try something else. harder soft fast slow more shaft, more suction or less.

Good luck santee

Regards
Otto

Otto · you could also have him work his shaft while you work his head. just like you can work your clit while he licks or penetrates you. so some things to think about

Santeezyxo / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

well i just tried again. he says he couldnt come becuase he was sick. and the last time he said he couldnt cum cause he had been hard a lot o the day hanging out with me. is it possible to not be able to come just cause you have a cold or do i just really give crappy blow jobs?

Otto · Looking at the history of your posts. i remember now you are new to all this in general. It doesnt just magically happen ( good sex) You are perfectly normal in this. As you gain experience, things will get easier, Also remember it takes 2 to tango, your man also needs to work on things on his end

Hillaryy_ / 19 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Coming from a girls experience, I have given one man a bj, and he was loving it and he came, and told me it was amazing.
on the other hand, I gave another man a bj, and I did it the same way - and I stopped halfway though because he said he coulddnt cum because he was "cramping" too much. idk what he meant by that either.. but anyways the point i'm TRYING to mke is that different men like it different ways. just dont think about it while you are doing it, just suck, and change up your pace every now and again. and also change up how much you are putting in your mouth.

SmoothAndShiny / Man / Likes Women / Single

For me personally, I like a lot of hand action during a blowjob (stroke it!). The most important thing is to enjoy doing it (or at least make like you're enjoying it). A nice smile, moans, and great eye contact goes a long way in a bj.
And playing with my balls and butt never hurts either ;-)