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posted 27 days ago
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How can I convince my girlfriend to give me a blowjob? I am her first sex partner, and hope to be her last. I am 22. She is 21. I dont want to seem to forceful and ruin our relationship. How can i? Please and thank you.
......???? you need to convince ur girl to give you a bj????? o_0 dude, just ask her. always works for me..... don't beg, plead, or whine. just ask- 'babe, (or whatever you call her as a pet name) you wanna do something for me?'.........even more effective if YOU go down on her first.
27 days ago
Army1048 ·
She doesn't want me to go down on her... Because I once tried... And she denied it. That's why I'm lookin for advice.
GG ·
Don't just dive in on her, be romantic, seductive and all that jazz. Kiss her all over, caress her and make her relaxed then slowly and cautiously make your way down there. If that fails then you need to talk to her about the issue. As Adrian says, start with her first then go from there.
You might want to figure out what the sexual hangup is. She obviously is not comfortable with anything at this point. At 21, I suspect super religious? The point is communication. Talk with her and see what the issue is. The only way is through honest communication.
Talk to her about it. Tell her how much you want it. Ask her if she would just kiss the tip of it. Then ask her, if she would do more. Communication. Don't be pushy just tell her how much you want it and give her a back rum or do something she really wants and then when she does do it make sure you let her know how amazing it is for you. If you make her feel like super woman for blowing you, you are going to get them every night for the rest of you life works for me.
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Adrian / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Single
......???? you need to convince ur girl to give you a bj????? o_0 dude, just ask her. always works for me..... don't beg, plead, or whine. just ask- 'babe, (or whatever you call her as a pet name) you wanna do something for me?'.........even more effective if YOU go down on her first.
Army1048 · She doesn't want me to go down on her... Because I once tried... And she denied it. That's why I'm lookin for advice.
GG · Don't just dive in on her, be romantic, seductive and all that jazz. Kiss her all over, caress her and make her relaxed then slowly and cautiously make your way down there. If that fails then you need to talk to her about the issue. As Adrian says, start with her first then go from there.
Sal / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Married
You might want to figure out what the sexual hangup is. She obviously is not comfortable with anything at this point. At 21, I suspect super religious? The point is communication. Talk with her and see what the issue is. The only way is through honest communication.
MonkeyBoy / 34 / Man / Likes Women / Married
Talk to her about it. Tell her how much you want it. Ask her if she would just kiss the tip of it. Then ask her, if she would do more. Communication. Don't be pushy just tell her how much you want it and give her a back rum or do something she really wants and then when she does do it make sure you let her know how amazing it is for you. If you make her feel like super woman for blowing you, you are going to get them every night for the rest of you life works for me.
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