How do I make him cum faster?

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Heaven,
It takes a lot longer time now for my boyfriend to cum. When I'm BJing him and giving him a hand job. It's like I get the hang out of it for a while, then I don't. :/ I get him going and for him feelin climaxing for a long time. But it still takes a long time. But when I take a break, he jacks off and he tells he's ready to cum. And I get ready to swallow. So, when i'm doing it to him. It takes forever. But he takes over for me. It's fast and quicker. So, how do I myself make him cum faster??

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Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)
Andy / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

You mention in another post you are newly sexually active, so my only advice is to give him time to adjust to the new sensation of your bj's. Also you are new and inexperienced in how to do it, and only time and experience will improve your skills, so just be patient with yourself.

about 3 years ago
AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 24 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Of course he's going to cum faster in his own hands. He knows what feels good to him because...well...he can feel it. You have to just learn that over time. Every man has a rhythm...some fast, some slow. They all have one though, and they have a sweet spot and fetishes and all kinds of other things. You will pick up on those as you are with him and you will learn to mold yourself sexually to him.

My first blow job took at least 30 minutes, and fuck knows how long my first hand job took. I still struggle with those damn things. My arms get all tired and I'm not very coordinated, so I try to divert to my mouth as much as possible. Anyway, the point is that you'll get better with it over time and that will make things go faster. I've been married for 3 years now and I'm still learning new stuff about my husband's sexual hot spots all the time. If you're a willing student, men are very willing teachers :)

about 3 years ago
ILoveCottonCandy
ILoveCottonCandy / 21 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

Ok, Thank you Heaven. You've really helped me a lot. So, thank you :)
Are you going to be posting any new videos on the website and on your YouTube channel?

about 3 years ago
AskMyGF

AskMyGF · The boys have a series of them that I've already recorded, so it is just a matter of when they edit and post them really. I know of at least 9 that are pending at the moment though, so yes, there are more to come :)

ILoveCottonCandy

ILoveCottonCandy · Ok, sweet. So, if anybody asks you to make a video on this subject or that subject. Does that mean you will? :)

AskMyGF

AskMyGF · Not necessarily, but I take all suggestions into consideration

ILoveCottonCandy

ILoveCottonCandy · Ok, well can you do a video on Grinding? And how to do it? Grinding is kind of like dry humping, right?

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · I'd go for a video about that. :-)

AskMyGF

AskMyGF · I'll put it on my list ;)

ILoveCottonCandy

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21 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

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