i am so happy that she likes giving me blowjob,she likes even experimenting in it,sometimes she gives me blowjob with flavored condoms and sometimes syrups,loll i know i might be sounding funny...
but there is a problem,she doesn't say not to cum in her mouth,but i saw her uneasy expressions while i did cum a little in her mouth.
once i talked to her,and even showed her some web pages,that its not so bad to swallow,just try it once,if u didnt like,then don't.
my question is,how can i persuade her to swallow,because she thinks,it is kinda toxic or may cause buccal Gonorrhea (oral disease),i want to know,does this really happen or not?and also how can i make her do it with her own will,with her own consent and happiness.
please answer me...
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GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
You can't force her to do anything and neither should you try. If you have mentioned it and given her the information she needed and she still said no, leave it be. She may let it sit for a while and then think better of it in a few months and want to try it. Make sure you cut down on caffeine and garlic and keep eating sweet things like fruit especially pineapple as this will enhance your chances of her trying it and liking it. If you want her to change a sexual habit, how hard can it be for you to change a dietary habit in return?
Awaisagha · yes i got ur point,but just want to ask u something...how using sweet things in diet make her wish to swallow.i don't think the composition of semen change with diet,it is what it is naturally.
GG · That's where you are wrong. Diet affects the taste of semen dramatically! Eat sweet things and it will taste sweeter than normal. Eat harsh things like spices or garlic or coffee or even smoking will make it taste worse than normal.
Awaisagha · :O:O i really didn't know this at all....thanks a ton for this kind information,seriously...i will try it...
cleverKAL · I knew fruit and sweets had an effect on taste, didn't think of smokes though, damn that sucks for me. Since I eat a lot of fruit and tomatos, do you think that will counteract the cigarette taste?
GG · It could do as there are so many chemicals in cigarettes. Try also drinking plenty of water to help thin out the consistency so it's not too thick.
cleverKAL · Water, check, I drink a hell of a lot of that. Thank you GG, most appreciated
Awaisagha · can semen swallowing,cause any health problems,or any long term diseases,or any child abnormalities when she is pregnant?or any kind of problem that may arise??
GG · No not at all.
BreatheMe / 18 / Bisexual / Likes Bisexuals / In a relationship
Look, if your wife doesn't WANT to swallow, just let it go. What's the difference anyways? It's going in HER mouth, not yours. Just feel lucky that she's gives you blow jobs in the first place and don't worry about the rest.
cleverKAL / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Agreed with BreatheMe, if you asked her and she said no, then don't push it. But since you didn't specify what her answer was to those web pages, then let her check them out or check em out with her and ask her if she's interested, then just respect whatever her decision may be. It's best when you both genuinely enjoy it, and if one person doesn't, then do like BreatheMe said, " just let it go."
Girlsontheirknees / Woman / Likes Men / Single
To BreathMe - All woman should want to give their man blow jobs! So to say "feel lucky she's giving you one" is selfish. Swallowing is polite aswell as more satisfying for men when they climax. Maybe explain to her that you love the taste of her and its hard for you to understand why she doesn't like the taste of you. Plus, when swallow i don't exactly swish it around in my mouth you hardly taste it if it goes straight down. Haven't you ever swallowed food before without tasting it???
cleverKAL · Agreed. I tried that, " I love the taste of you, do you think you wanna try and see if you like the taste of me " twice before, on two seperate women, it didn't work. I haven't gotten a girl to swallow since I was 15, and that was under special circumstances.
Awaisagha · can semen swallowing,cause any health problems,or any long term diseases,or any child abnormalities when she is pregnant?or any kind of problem that may arise??
BreatheMe · Wow, that has got to be one of the most ignorant answers I've ever read. "Women should WANT to give their men blow jobs". Tell you what, put a penis in YOUR mouth and see how YOU like it. Second of all; how does HER swallowing satisfy YOU more? THE JOB IS DONE. You can't FEEL her swallow. Try being appreciative instead of focusing on yourself, she's in that situation too. Respect what she want or doesn't want. Oh, and back to the "Women should want to give their men blow jobs" Keyword is MEN...but you're selfishly acting speaking like a BOY.
cleverKAL · The point here people, is that swallowing has always been, and most likely, always will be one of the sex topics that's stuck in the grey. No definitive answers, just a mess of scattered opinions. So men, listen to you're women and HER take on the subject, and respect it. But I will say this, with regards to blowjobs : my friend / roommates ex girl, had never / would never give head, didn't like it, refused every time. And yet she had noooo problem when he wanted to eat her out, in fact she would sometimes beg / request it. Finally, he got tired of giving it enough in hopes that she'd come around, so he asked her one last time, she went off on him, so he told her that " there had to be a compromise and that oral should just not be done by either of us, anymore." I quietly applauded him from the kitchen and she dumped him 2 weeks later when she realized he wasn't kidding around. I don't believe in pushing a girl doing it, but I would have suggested the same compromise then, even though I'm very fond of eating snatch, I'd sacrifice, depending on the girl.
Girlsontheirknees · haha well that response is irrelevant since i AM a woman, I'm speaking for myself you ignoramus. and for the record i fucking swallow!
cleverKAL · Whoa, hostile much? I was just puttin it out there, and yes I know you're a woman and you speak for yourself, wasn't trying to offend, just a general statement. As for your view on swallowing, I applaud you, never had it done to me, but maybe one day all my good karma will pay off, maybe not, the cosmic energy can be cruel at times.
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