How can I get my wife to give me oral, & oral I can enjoy more. The only oral I can get from her is when were 69,don't get me wrong that is great but all I want is to sit back & relax & enjoy it. I give her oral all the time & expected to do a lot of extra fore play so she can get off numerous times every time we do it. I would like to know how to get her to give me pleasure once in a while without having to do all the foreplay.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If the sex isn't 50/50, you should just confront her about it. There are a lot of times when I won't be in the mood at all, but I'll at least blow my husband because I think it's stupid to deprive him of that. your wife should respect your needs too, especially if you fulfill hers. Maybe the problem is that things have gotten boring, seeing that you have been married for 8 years. You could try making a blow job more of a game by covering your dick in whip cream or something. Hell, you could wrap it in bacon if you guys would be into that stuff. Try to think of something creative and she may be more enthused about getting involved.
Willie / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I have confronted her but she only sees things the way she wants to she acts like I'm being selfish and I only worry about my needs. And I bring up all the extra stuff I do during foreplay she just treats it like that's what men are supposed to do during foreplay. Shit I can't even get her give me hand job while I'm servicing her unless I take her hand & put it on my cock.
Needmuch / Woman / Likes Men / Single
u r such an inconsiderate man Willie??? work ur marrieage or end it up, u have two choices. fuck all the hot girls! and let's see what happened after,
Curious / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Some women don't like to give blowjobs. It's true. It isn't written in stone that they all will.
And I wouldn't suggest ever trying to guilt trip your SO into doing something she just doesn't want to do or enjoy doing. If it's that important to you, I think you should have confronted the problem much earlier in the relationship. If it were to be a deal breaker, then so be it. But now, it's to late to be that superficial. Unless you really are so shallow as to end an 8 year marriage over it.
Know what you're in for when you're getting into it, is the only advice I have for you.
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