If a girl initiates a blowjob with a non-boyfriend, does she have to swallow?

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My girlfriend and I are sophomores in college and we are both single. To blow off steam (ha! ha!) we just started to go out to places and pick one or two cute guys and take them someplace safe, college library or in a corner of the food commons and blow them.

My older sister says if a girl initiates the blowjob, she has to swallow, and jokes the word "I ate" is part of initiates. So, I've been swallowing all of my blowjobs since I was 15. I hate to think how many loads I've swallowed. My best friend and partner in crime says that's bogus, she never swallows dick snot. She says when she meets a guy willing to eat his own snot out of her cunny after sex, then she'll start to swallow.

I guess I don't like to swallow, but the guys whimper so much as they shoot into my mouth, I kinda hate to disappoint them. And I feel like I have so much power over them as they cum. Not to mention how messy it is if you spill cum, he pulls out, etc.

So ladies out there, if you initiate a blowjob with someone other than your boyfriend, do you swallow or not?

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Chris
Chris / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I'm a guy, I know you want girl responses, but I know some girls I havw talked to about blowjobs. I think it came down to their own choice. The ones that loved giving blowjobs swallowed & the ones that were as much into it spit. One girl said she spit if she doesn't know the guy & swallows if she knows him or is dating them.

about 2 years ago
Jenny
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single

If you're just blowing these guys for fun and don't care about them,you really don't have to swallow. If you're starting to feel strongly about this then I suggest you keep a small cup or towel with you to spit in or clean up the mess. Remember, only do what you feel comfortable doing whether you're in a relationship or not. There are no "rules" to giving blow jobs. Best wishes!

about 2 years ago
All Aboard the Titanic
All / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I say "yes" you should swallow. If you're starting this whole production, then I think you have to swallow just to complete it. Also, if the taste or texture gets to you, do what I do. Deepthroat as much as you can, then when he shoots, its going right down your throat, so there's no taste or texture. Only a drop or two as he pulls out. This is what I've told my daughters and when they got to high school and started blowing their upperclassman boyfriends, they knew what they were doing, how to do it and they had their boyfriends wrapped around their fingers! I also recommend staring them in their eyes as they shoot, it blows their minds!

about 2 years ago
Throat_poker
Throat_poker / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Ok so Im a guy, but you Must swallow its essential, gulp that man snot down like a champion. Chug down every last drop like Clara says, looking into his eyes as he blows his load.... Otherwise, youll get a reputation for yourself !! Oh, and tell your friend she's not doing it properly

about 2 years ago
Davidschmidt
Davidschmidt / Man / Likes Men / Single

U were swallowing at 15?! You must be experienced by now!

11 months ago
Greyinall
Greyinall / 31 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

Why didnt i go to that school???

8 months ago
Guiltypleasurer
Guiltypleasurer / Man / Likes Women / Single

I'm a guy. We love it when you swallow, but you don't have to. A couple things to consider, is he going down on you? If he is then he is consuming your juice, so it's closer to equal give and take. If he's not going down on you then ask yourself is he not going down on me cause of my choice or his? If the answer is his, then he's luck you're blowing him at all, if the answer is yours then it needs to be your personal decision, and if they're random you should be careful for stis.

5 months ago
Guiltypleasurer
Guiltypleasurer / Man / Likes Women / Single

Also if you don't like swallowing, a messier, but sometimes equally desirable (for the man) option is a facial. But most girls find that worse than consuming the cum.

5 months ago

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