OK, I'm embarassed to admit it but I've never gone down on a girl before and as I've tried to imagine doing it I've come to a frightening realization. I can't stick out my tongue more than half an inch beyond by teeth, if that. Even that amount REALLY fatigues my tongue muscle and I can't keep it that far out for more than 5-10 seconds. From everything I've read a guy isn't supposed to use the tip of his tongue but the flat top of it when orally going to town on his women's honey pot. I'm afraid my tongue just can't stick out far enough for that. Am I doomed to never give satisfying oral to women?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Lol, this made me giggle. That may just be because I have an abnormally long tongue though, like i can touch it to my nose and do all kinds of tricks with it. I can't picture having the opposite problem.
I don't think you're doomed to be un-pleasurable (yes, I made that word up). Men work around short dicks all the time, so surely you can work around a supposedly short tongue. You obviously won't know until you try it really, but you make enough comments about giving oral to indicate that you've done your research and have a certain passion for the act. That will make you a million times better than any long tongued lad around.
As long as you care about whatever sexual act you are going through, the girl you are with won't be able to help getting turned on. A girl can orgasm in her mind without you ever touching her if you get her going enough...I'm dead serious. Keep up the passion and maybe do some tongue pushups or something if you're super self conscious :)
Good luck Andy.
PS: Has anyone ever complained about a makeout session with you, assuming you've had one? That requires the tongue you know :) Just a thought.
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
I've make-out with girls, yes, and no complaints. I tend to stick to reaching around the inside of her lips and playing with her tongue when she's inside my mouth. Never really been able to reach into hers much.
Part of my worry is that I won't be able to prevent scraping her soft and sensitive parts with my teeth when trying to get within tongue-range.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I genuinely think you'll be fine. Rarely do women complain about oral of any kind just because of how rarely guys do it. She'll just be stoked to have you down there...teeth and all :)
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Now Andy, when on earth are we getting you a girlfriend huh?:)
Kris_curious / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
lol Im having the same problem. (Thats why i found this page).. except i have already gone down on my girl.. and im just curious/ self conscious as to how well i did.. she said it was good but i feel as though its just because she doesnt want me to feel bad.. im just thinking about what i can do to improve on it.. but there is only so much you can do with a short tongue
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