Im am curious about this.. and it is just what I have seen, not experienced and not an issue in my marriage. Why is it that if a man goes down on a woman he is expected to stay there until she has had her satisfaction, But when a woman goes down on a man its her choice about "letting" him finish. And then if he "finishes" on her face its "degrading" ?!?
And how would you feel if your S/O went running to the bathroom after you finished and was gaging and puking!? I understand that guys produce more then women, but if she doesn't allow him to finish, is she being selfish?
Once again, just a question and please don't jugde me because I love and respect my wife of 13 years. We had a party last night and this subject came up ( no pun intended) and I was amazed at who said what and wanted other peoples opinion. Thanks
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I suppose if you're dealing with a squirter, that would be a double standard. If not though, all you have to be down there for is a release of the muscles. I personally don't find facials degrading by any means unless they are done without the girl's consent. Women bitch about having to swallow. They can't bitch about you putting it somewhere though. That again - in my opinion - is stupid.
You don't even have to bring up the oral part really. By "finishing" on her face, you are saving her from the ever dreaded swallowing. It's a good thing really, not degrading. If you go jizzing on random strangers, I understand it being degrading. For something like your wife though, that should be welcomed. Perhaps I'm a more open minded person than most women, but to complain about that is ridiculous to me.
Tongueman / 56 / Man / Likes Women / Single
The best answer to this is like most things in life and that answer is: "It depends" as it truly depends on many factors such as whose viewpoint you are using as well as the religious / moral standards of the party making the opinion.
In my opinion it is a definite double standard for a husband that works to get his wife to multiple squirting orgasms during 69 when the wife is not willing to "receive" her husbands semen anyplace other then inside her vagina. If the husband is not supposed "back away" or close his mouth in the middle of her orgasm if the wife is squirting in his mouth but she is not willing to allow her husband to release in her mouth that is a double standard especailly if the husband is supposed to pull his penis out of her mouth and reach for kleenex to release himself in to avoid degrading her by releasing on the exterior of her body while he is required to maintaining the oral attention on the wife. But to my wife there is not any double standard here!
My wife also does not see anything wrong with her opinion that once she brings me to one orgasm sexual playtime is over for the week even after I tried to use learning to give her multiple squirting orgasms as a means to attempt to prove to her that a person can have multiple orgasms in one day. Yes, if I am performing oral on her she will work to prolong the sexual session until she has her fill but once she is satisfied she wants me to squirt and finish up but during intercourse she is all about getting me to squirt one time as quick as possible so she can say she "did her job for the week" and avoid sex again for days. To her none of this is a double standard just her fulfilling her "wifely duties!"
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