The guy I'm sleeping with has a hard time being able to cum when I blow him, and I'm damn good at it. I go after every part of that region from the artery to the taint, delicately and hard but it still takes him forever to reach that point. Any tips?
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AskMyGF / 23 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I don't know if your boyfriend would be into it, but maybe he would like some prostate play thrown in. That can massively intensify an orgasm if anal play is allowed. If not, try to play into a fetish he has and incorprate the blow job in it. If he wants you to dominate him, for instance, he might actually get off better if you just tease him. Handcuff him to the bed and make him beg for it. That'll get the juices flowing. If not, maybe he was just meant for vaginal sex. In either case, not orgasming quickly should be a good thing. Some girls would kill to have that problem, so just be happy that he goes at all and have soe patience with him.
Mikejordan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
you're not that good, trust me
Phatmanswingin · That's cold :)
TrueLoveSwallows / Man / Likes Women / Single
Without more details its hard to say so I will simply list some of the more common problems. Some women think that running their lips up and down a shaft is a blowjob. Its not. Its a tease. What you need to do is pull in your cheeks so that you can make maximum contact with his shaft. Combine some hand motion with head motion. Is he self-conscious about coming in your mouth? Reassure him that you WANT him to come in your mouth. Be aggressive when jerking and sucking him. Convince him that it turns you on to be doing it for him.