OK, so you mean she won't let you get a bj from your bj-loving friend? Well then that seems final on that front. If she likes threesomes, then bring up doing that with your friend often and have the friend do the bj durring the threesome. Also ask her why she has lost interest in bjs lately, but try to not sound judgemental or accusatory, just "honey, I was just wondering why you don't like giving bj's anymore, is it something I've done, some smell or taste of me? Is there something I've done wrong?" kind of thing.
Well that all depends on what your wife thinks i guess. If she has no problem with it then go for it! She may want a 3some! I don't think this is something worth brakeing a marriage over but she does need to know how you feel about it and she should be aware of how much it affects your marriage.
when we were first together she would do it all the time i never had to ask in the last few years it has come to a complete stop and maybe if im lucky i get one during sex as for the threesome we have and she will join in on a bj she has said that if i want one go get one not that im bugging or asking her for one i dont ask anymore cus it goes no where
she has even had a couple of her friends come over and do it but gets upset when i ask if the friend with the oral fetish can do it i realy cant win on this i feel its ok for her to set it up but i cant what do i do
ok heres my problem im married i love my wife but she doesnt like giving blow jobs but i have a friend that loves to give head she can go for hours sucking on one and she loves to swallow should i take the friend up on a blowjob once in awhile
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Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
OK, so you mean she won't let you get a bj from your bj-loving friend? Well then that seems final on that front. If she likes threesomes, then bring up doing that with your friend often and have the friend do the bj durring the threesome. Also ask her why she has lost interest in bjs lately, but try to not sound judgemental or accusatory, just "honey, I was just wondering why you don't like giving bj's anymore, is it something I've done, some smell or taste of me? Is there something I've done wrong?" kind of thing.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i whole heartedly agree w/ andy's suggestion.
Scott · ive tried and get no answer as for the threesome with bj queen the answer was no
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · well, then give up on the bj queen (unless you want to leave ur wife, it sounds like it's one or the other)
Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · What Adrian said. Try finding another women who is agreeable to your wife who could be good at giving oral.
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Well that all depends on what your wife thinks i guess. If she has no problem with it then go for it! She may want a 3some! I don't think this is something worth brakeing a marriage over but she does need to know how you feel about it and she should be aware of how much it affects your marriage.
Scott / 43 / Man / Likes Women / Married
when we were first together she would do it all the time i never had to ask in the last few years it has come to a complete stop and maybe if im lucky i get one during sex as for the threesome we have and she will join in on a bj she has said that if i want one go get one not that im bugging or asking her for one i dont ask anymore cus it goes no where
she has even had a couple of her friends come over and do it but gets upset when i ask if the friend with the oral fetish can do it i realy cant win on this i feel its ok for her to set it up but i cant what do i do
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Is there a reason why she doesn't like giving head? Are you trying to change this about her or are you looking for a solution outside of this?
Scott / 43 / Man / Likes Women / Married
ok heres my problem im married i love my wife but she doesnt like giving blow jobs but i have a friend that loves to give head she can go for hours sucking on one and she loves to swallow should i take the friend up on a blowjob once in awhile
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