hey well im ready and almost excited to give my first blowjob and possible a facial later but i have qs and well accept any advice an example question is should i remove my glasses before givig a blowjob or reciving a facial or would this be a turn off
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GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Noooooo!!!! Keep your specs on. This will make things a lot easier for you when he does cum, plus boys/men tend to like the glasses look especially when you're sucking their cock.
Keep making eye contact and smile! Don't continually suck suck suck, change things up by flicking your tongue over the tip and pausing to ask if it feels nice. The fact that you're talking to him will turn him on more than anything plus it gives him the option to tell you how it feels etc so you can check your technique lol.
Noname1970 · +1...... But keep in mind, talking too much isn't good either.... a little is fine... great even! But this "conversation" isn't about talking.
Choleb / Man / Likes Women / Single
thanks but i really no nothing about giving a bj i need all the basics
GG · They are the basics, don't blow, suck lol. Don't swallow if you don't want to, i dont because it tastes vile. Start off slow and light and with licks all along the cock not just the top. Use your hands too when you get him in your mouth. Then the more aroused he gets suck harder and faster. Watch for his reactions as you do it. Some boys like teeth being scraped lightly back up their cock from the base to tip, i said lightly!!
Choleb · how do u feel about facials
GG · I LOVE facials!!
Choleb · did u work ur way up or just do it cuz im slightly scared of the thought of that just flying directly at my face
GG · No i have given blowjobs for more than half my life but it's only been the last 10yrs that i experimented with facials.
Choleb · well i thik i love the idea but im afraid when the oppriyunity comes i will chicken out, jump ,run or something any advice?
GG · Yes, if you don't want to do it when it comes to it, then don't do it. Simple. Never be made to feel forced into something with regards to sex.
Choleb · well i seem to do this in many ways its taking me 5 years tohave just a tip put in my ass and im avoiding vaginal sex and untill its time i am absolutely ready to give my first blowjob and i wantg to but i just cant bring myself to then i need to forc myself but how
GG · Can i ask why the hell youre starting with anal fucking instead of vaginal?
Noname1970 · "Then the more aroused he gets suck harder and faster."..... I'm sure GG's right on this when it comes to most men, and while I do like that too, for what it's worth, I actually prefer it when a lady slows down and gets into it as if SHE wants to make it last.... especially right before/while I cum... Just something to consider.
Choleb · idk young and dumb
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · .....'young and dumb '....... exactly what i was thinking!!!! really? anal, but NOT vaginal?......young and dumb.......VERY!!!! look, i'm just going to tell you, guys ur age usually DON'T know how the fuck to use their dick so as to NOT hurt you.
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
OH yes please keep your glasses on, also, look him right in the eyes as you do it.
GG gave lots of good advice, do t ry to experiment as every man has different needs.
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