Okay so i'm a virgin,and it's this guy that I have been seeing for a while and he wanted to have sex with me at first until I talk to him about how i'm a virgin and wanted to hold off until i'm actually ready for the time to come,and he understood me on that and insisted on asking me if he could just eat me out instead and a little of fingering (I was thinking to myself hum something I really love :) so I was wondering should i just go ahead and let him or could or would it still lead to something else even after the talk???????? A little advice would help out....right about now :)
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Bojan / 21 / Man / Likes Women / Single
if you aren't 100% sure,then you aren't ready
Vona · yeah that's true in a way!!!! :) thanks!
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
Vona, once you start along the path of sexual interaction, its easy enough to start slipping deeper into other sexual activities.
The bottom line is that you need to figure out what your comfort level is. Also to look honestly at what might happen once you start getting sexual with your guy. Only you can decide what the limits are.
Personally i dont see any diffence between fingers tongue or penis play with your pussy. Other than the possibility of pregnancy or std risks.
Just remember to set limits and expectations before you go further. IF intercourse is scared to you, remember to make it clear its off limits, expect that at some point he will want gratification as well.
Another thing to think about is that no matter how much you plan, once things get going the the heat of the moment builds you or your guy may change your minds.
I would suggest you think through all the implications of this. I certainly hope you have lots of fun and shared growth no matter what. Also look at my virgin not virgin post. some food for thought
good luck my dear lady
Vona · :) Thank you.....your advice was really helpful!!!
Otto · my pleasure =D
Rage · On point, Otto!
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