So, i have this very unusual problem.
Unlike many gals who have trouble having orgasms, i felt very lucky at the beginning that i could very easily orgasm when i masturbated.
I thought that i had discovered the best way to pleasure myself and felt very happy when i herd about others who struggled to get an orgasm because i was not struggling like them.
However now i feel that i am unlucky for the same reason after i am in a relationship as i cant participate for a long time in foreplay or sex with my partner, i have a few orgasms very quickly and i feel like stopping it before my partner has his share of pleasure.
I get a very uncomfortable feeling if i am stimulated more than that.
I am not able to pleasure my partner due to this though i get very good orgasms.
Is there any reason that i am so sensitive?
Do you know any methods by which i can delay my orgasms so that my partner is also happy?
Note that i have tried masturbating before sex to make myself less sensitive but that doesn't seem to help much.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If the masturbation hasn't worked, you may try different positions that don't hit your sweet spot as easily. Otherwise, you may try to avoid all contact with yourself down there while you give your partner a hand job or blow job. You can get him rock solid, almost to the point of orgasming himself. Then your quick orgasms wouldn't be that big of a deal because he would be ready to have one too.
If you want to decrease your sensitivity overall, there should be some sort of herbal supplements to take to do that. I've only researched and tried stuff to increase libido, sensitivity, etc so I'm not sure about ones to do the opposite. Any time I've gone to buy birth control though, I've been warned about how some pills and treatment options will hurt sexual desire, so there may be some that also mess with your hormones enough to decrease your sensitivity. Honestly, it may be a good idea to go to a woman's clinic in your area where you could speak to someone more medically knowledgeable than I am who can give you a legitimate treatment solution.
We all have different levels of sensitivity. Some women can't orgasm to save their life and others cannot last for more than a few seconds without exploding. You're just one of the exploders :) Find a guy with premature ejaculation issues and you'll be set! Haha. Take care.
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