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cant orgasm
Question Asked by help! about 1 year ago - [ Ask a Question ]
i have been sleeping with my boyfriend for quite a while now, but i cant seem to orgasm! i dont think its him, hes amazing and the sex is really great, i just cant seem to get 'all the way', so to speak. it begins to build up then stops all of a sudden, its dead irritating! he orgasms everytime, and does what he can to help me to but i never can. any tips?
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Once you can achieve an orgasm alone, you can definitely achieve an orgasm with a partner. Start by stimulating yourself visually, from magazines, to porn. Once you're more relaxed find the right lubricant and do what feels right and good to yourself. And once you've achieved giving yourself an orgasm, you can easily guide your boyfriend into giving you one by telling him what feels good to you etc. Good luck and most of all, have fun!!
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by miaka about 1 year ago
when you do it with your bf trying massaging your clit while he is pumping you. Im pretty sure you'll get to the end.
by arsenal2007 about 1 year ago
your saying he ejaculates..... How long does it take for him to finish? Does he give you head? You say he's amazing but are you sure your both doing everything possible in order for you to orgasm? Try everything you can think off for as long as you can do it (or as long as he can, lol).... Just make sure you explore different options together, like 69's, anal, dildo's, whatever, to find the orgasm you've been looking for.
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by weazel about 1 year ago
get a dildo. that will help u both a lot