Ok so first off I have this amazing GF, shes 22 and im soon to be 23, I'm rather large guy (6'8" about 350lbs) and we have been dating for about 3 months, we like all the same things, share the same fantasy's, you name it and we share it. My Question to my problem is the fact that when we have sex, we are still trying to find positions that would work for her as well as me, and Im all about female satisfaction, I believe that sex should be mutual and not one sided so that we provide enough time for foreplay, and then sex it sex, I make sure that she is good and warmed up for the act and that during the act she has one if not multiple orgasms before I TRY to take mine, my question pertains to the fact that, Im about average size but rather thick but, thats besides the point, It seems that no matter how much I get turned on I just cant seem to reach orgasm, I can however reach it through self masturbation, she hasnt said anything Yet, as she likes to watch me masturbate but I know she would like to have me orgasm during sex. I have read up on my possible condition as delayed ejaculation but it offered no solution as how to fix this. I have tried to slow down as I masturbate, but it still doesnt seem to fix this problem. Now my GF and I have tried cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, rocking, or butterfly i think its called, doggy style and missionary but it doesnt seem to fix this problem any help would be much thanks.
as another question this comes from my GF, she enjoys giving Blowjobs, but as I'm not the biggest but am the thickest she has been with, she would like to know how she could better situate herself to handle such a thick penis
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It's possible that you may just not be a vaginal man. It sounds crazy, but some guys actually prefer blowjobs or other sexual acts rather than standard vaginal intercourse. My own husband is like that actually :) If she actually *likes* to blow you, you're already in good shape...assuming you can cum from that activity. If you can't cum from anything but masturbation, you may want to hold off on the masturbation so your body is no longer used to it. Then perhaps it will be sensitive or "fresh" enough to enjoy sex.
As for your girlfriend, it's probably just going to be a work in progress. I'm sure someone has written some random article about jaw exercises she could do or something, but from my standpoint, she just needs to slowly get acclimated to the thickness. Every girl has trouble with their first blowjob because they're not used to having something as thick as a dick in their mouth. She's encountering the same problem...just with a little more experience. If she does it frequently enough, she'll get used to just about any size you are.
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