My GF and I have been sexually active for about a week. In past relationships I've been humiliated by my inability to control myself....I can't go more than two minutes (max) without blasting enough seed to render myself useless for another six hours. I need to be able to enter without finishing a minute later. I mean, two minuites represents the hight of my ability to control my ejaculation. Something's gotta give. What can I do here?
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Exokisa / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Are you using condoms? If not, that's a great place to start. It won't feel as great for you, but that's okay. It'll last longer.
It's mind over matter here. Don't let your mind run away with you once you get into the act. No matter how great it feels or how sexy she looks, you have to stay calm. Try looking away sometimes or counting. Think of it like exercise. The more strokes you can do, the more satisfying it will be.
If nothing seems to help, talk to your doctor about it. It's fairly common problem and he can probably help you. In the mean time, you could try placing more emphasis on foreplay, rather than sex. Let her get her rocks off before you have sex and she probably won't mind your minute-man status as much.
Erihanna7 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
you can try takin brakes when u feel like you are commin
Jackie / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Have you tried placing her on top? Sometimes when the girl is on top it takes longer for the guy to cum. Also if you just allow her to do the work and stay very still your penis will not be stimulated as much and she will gain most of the pleasure. Using condoms is another sure way to stop friction from getting you excited. Also try giving her oral sex until she is about to cum. That is usually the fastest way to excite a girl and hopefully once you enter her she will be just about ready to climax and you both will be satisfied. Hope this helps.
Grs / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I think you're worried about the wrong problem here. a 6 hr recovery period is normal if you're in your 50s and 60s maybe even later.
You can try using condoms or more condoms if you are already wearing one as things stand. I think that may lead you to lose your erection though seeing how it takes you 6 hrs to recover from one ejaculation. On average you should be able to again within 30 min from the first time. and it gradually extends after each time but no where near 6 hrs.
I agree with ERIHANNA7 though. I Also agree with EXOKISA in needing to see a dr but mainly to deal with the 6 hr lag you described.
No woman is gonna complain if you cum take a break then go again.
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