My man gets extremely excited when he feels that I am about to cum. He gets so excited that he ends up getting off first and then I am stuck still horny. What should I do to make him calm down in order for me to finally have a pleasurable experience?
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Xtinacicchelli / Woman / Likes Men / Single
There are a number of ways you can relax your lover before he spills his load. Pinpoint at what moments your partner gets the most excited and use this to determine the rhythm of your love-making. There may be moments when you'll need to slow down and relax, at which point the two of you can hold each other, touch, and talk dirty. Then, gradually increase the play to oral stimulation, then onward. This extends the sex and includes various different activities for you to explore. If he does cum before you do and you're still horny, then he needs to help you out until you're fulfilled. Ian Kerner's "She Comes First" offers really great advice on the numerous ways your partner can pleasure you without his penis. If you have sex toys, then bring them into the mix. Use the ones that get you off the best, and also have your partner use your toys on you. That way, he still contributes to you having a fantastic orgasm.
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