Okay, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months now and weve gotten to the point were we are having sex on a pretty regular basis. The problem we have, however, is that she cant orgasm. She has had sex with about 9 different guys in her life, all guys that she has dated, and she has never had an orgasm. Not only that, she has tried masturbation and using toys, such as dildos and vibrators. No matter what she does or what I do, she wont reach that point. She has told me that I have been her best partner out of her past partners and she says that she has felt closest to reaching that point with me, but she says she is still far away from an orgasm. I have tried stimulating her clit, both during sex and during foreplay, but she seems to get little pleasure out of it. I have started to explore for her g-spot, but I dont know how successful that will be in getting her to orgasm. Ive had no problem getting girls to orgasm in the past, but this girl is impossible. I dont know if this is related at all, but she likes it from behind (not anal, just regular) and she likes it when im in control. Please tell me what else I can do to help her reach that point!
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
The vibrators would be the first place I would normally ask people to go, but you say she's already tried that. To me, it sounds like it's time for a doctor visit. There is a possibility that she has a hormonal imbalance which is affecting her sensitivity and ability to orgasm. If you try something before the doctor, have her take Don Quia or Maca root supplements. Both are said to increase female libidos. Zinc might help her sensitivity around her nipples and clit, so you can try that as well. She really needs to go talk to a professional though.
The_answer / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I been with women that said no guy has ever made me orgasm. I girlfriend right now has never had a orgasm before she met me and she been with 11 partners!!! And now i make her have a orgasm without having sex.....! The key is to make your partner relaxed and find out what it is that they love doing in bed!!! Focused are your energy on that soon enough she will go!!!
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