My guy and I have pretty good sex. We have some issues because we both tend to want to be in control. I have mostly let him take the reigns and let him do facials and anything like that. I am pretty sexually adventurous but this guy seems to be all about his orgasm. How can I explain to him that I'm not really having a great time without hurting his feelings?
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Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
If this guy is really "all about himself," there's a very good chance that you won't be able to bring this up without hurting his feelings. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't bring it up: you're supposed to be there for each other in the bedroom; it's not a one-way street. Every woman I've ever had a straight forward serious conversation about sex with has agreed on one thing: the men who are the worst in bed are the ones who seem to treat a woman's pleasure as incidental to their own.
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
aye ya yai...... see, it's guys like that that amaze me by getting girls left and right! ok, to be blunt, you AREN'T going to be able to bring this up WITHOUT hurting him! it just isn't possible if he as self-centered and self-oriented as you say. but you have to bring this up, or else go on miserable.
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