I've always had a problem achieving an orgasm when someone's going down on me. I don't know why it's such a big deal. I'm usually pretty frank about it with my partners, which always makes them try a little harder. But, when I end up not having the orgasm, some of them are just so stubborn about it. They think it's up to them to make it happen for me and I don't know if that's always the case. I enjoy orgasms when I do have them, which is mostly through masturbation (no toys) and penetrative sex. But, never with oral. Is there a way that I can channel an orgasm when my partner's going down on me? Or is just a lost cause?
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Jackie / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Relaxtion is one of the key things to cumming with oral sex. Are you comfortable with someone being down there or does it freak you out sometimes and cause your mind to wander? Women usually have a harder time cumming because they either are not relaxed enough and the female gender thinks way more than the male creating stress and subconscious insecurities to surface. If that is not the issue, then I suggest finding the technique that feels best on you and have them continue that. Try having him finger you at the same time so you get both the oral and penetration pleasure.
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