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Question Asked by SheenaIsReallyWorried 8 months ago - [ Ask a Question ]

I'm 18. I've been with my bf for 2 and a half yrs and i have never had an orgasm.
I can never have one when masturbating either...
I get to the point when it feels really good but then i get some weird feeling in my stomach that makes me stop stimulating my clit, its like when you want someone to stop tickling you, but somehow different. It happens when i'm with my bf too, sometimes i have to stop him, i try to ignore that feeling but i just can't make myself, i push him away every time....and i can't stand him (or me) stimulating my clit again after that...

And sometimes it feels great, but i get that feeling just for few secs and then its gone and i'm not even horny anymore which is really a problem when it happens in foreplay and i have to fake it through intercourse...
First 6 months my bf knew i can't orgasm, but i started to feel really bad because it was really important to him too, and i felt even more pressure, so i started faking it....
Does this happen to anyone? Please help, i'd really appreciate any advice...

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I didn't mention this in the video, but don't fake your orgasms. If he finds out, it'll only make things worse. Figure out how to solve the problem rather than lying or faking your way through it. And usually, he can tell - even if he doesn't indicate that. I address the rest of your issues in the vid.

Answered by Heaven Stubblefield 8 months ago.
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