I'm a healthy and happy 19 girl who enjoys sex, but I've never had an orgasm before. The strongest sensation for me is for a guy to rub my clit and lick my butthole. I'm almost cum this way, I think, because I can feel a heavy pressure building, but obviously I can't ask a guy I just met to like my butthole. I do masturbate, but I've never cum by masturbating before.
I do practice excellent hygiene by the way, but I still feel pretty weird asking a guy to lick me there. How can I cum?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Yes, it would be a little weird to just ask a guy to lick your ass...although you can't be afraid to ask if you've been together for awhile :) As for how to make you cum, you seriously need to invest in a vibrator.If you can't find one or are too embarrassed to get one, buy a $5 back massager somewhere that you can hold in your hand. It'll do the same thing. Watch some porn to get yourself nice and wet, and then let that puppy purr. It can move much faster than your fingers, and it'll feel good in an instance.
That's the fastest way I know to teach you how to cum. You can try to find your g-spot, but that often takes time. You seem frustrated, so taking time may not be ideal. you can also take stuff like Don Quai and Maca root to help your sex drive and "wetness", or you could seek professional advice from a licensed doctor.
Good luck!
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