Hey Everyone!
My boyfriend is great in bed with me, but I am really starting to lose my self worth sexually. I've never had issues with any of my previous love interests in the past. However, my boyfriend is uncircumcised, and we always have a problem that interrupts us sexually. I can't give him a hand job because he always complains about it hurting because it's too dry, how do I give him good hand jobs with this problem? He takes forever to cum but we frequently get interrupted because he complains about pains in his penis preventing him from cumming. He says that he is about to and that he wants to but he loses his boner because there are sharp cramps that prevent him from cumming. I am starting to be really upset with myself and feel that I will never be able to please him. I am starting to shy away from any sexual acts because I am worried that it will end in me not being able to please him. I am not an unconfident individual but sexuality has always been very important to me and I've never had issues like this with a partner.
Thank you all for your time!
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Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single
lube lube and lots of lube. spit on it, lick it, or gob on some high quality lube. water based..
I would not be so worried about not being able to please him. He appreciates it im sure.
When he jacks off does it hurt him? If not there is some technique that can help im sure. Perhaps you could try grabbing further down his shaft and bring more skin up to the end of the penis before starting. + lube... Or you could look and see if there are tight spots in his foreskin attachment points. you may be stroking down past a comfortable stretch. try varying your strokes. short and fast as to not stress his attachment points.
doctor might be a good thing if it hurts him when he jacks off
Goodluck!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · these are good suggestions. you also should WATCH him while he jerks off, as i have a feeling that you may be employing a wrong technique! cuz i have a feeling that it does not hurt when he masturbates, but you may be applying the wrong technique.
Rosexpiano · It does hurt when he masturbates, he doesn't know why. Sometimes he just loses his boner as well. He wants to continue but he can't physically because he's lost it.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ok, if it hurts ON HIS OWN, have him go see his doctor! it is NOT supposed to hurt AT ALL! and if he's too proud or macho to go see a doctor, then i won't bother to help when he comes here whining cuz his dick fell off or something. GO SEE A DOCTOR!
Jalpha12 · Im with Adrian on this there is something wrong if it hurts when he does anything . Its time to see a doctor.
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