i broke my gf virginity a few months ago. Since then we have sex numerous times. Problem is, although she says she enjoys it n it feels good, i cant seem to get her to orgasm. If i rub or lick her clit 4 a while she gets realy wet n orgasms but when i penetrate her, she gets as wet but doesnt cum. She gets tired n starts hurting. What must i do? Am i doing something wrong?
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Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
No you are not doing anything wrong...you are simply living up to one of the many male stereotypes.
"What must I do?" you ask. The answer: ASK HER! Every girl is different...there are things you might do that please one girl that will turn another girl off. The vagina is extremely intricate and the best way to yield results is to get them from the woman.
It's just like whan a dude is lost: Instead of pulling over and asking for directions, he drives aimlessly for a half-hour like morons. Too proud and too stubborn, and all it does is cost time and cause more aggravation.
Next time you two are hooking up and it starts to get spicy, have her tell you what to do. If it still doesn't happen, don't sweat it. Some girls have a very difficult time achieving orgasms from people other than themselves. I know one woman who has had multiple sexual partners, yet the only time she ever achieved an orgasm was when she was masturbating to phone sex. Women are way too unpredictable, but isn't that why we love them so much?
Rkvtec / Woman / Likes Men / Single
thanx dan. Another thing. Everytime we do it, it hurts her the 1st moment i go in. She feels tite aswel. Y is she nt stretchn as such?
Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You need to incorporate more foreplay. Go down on her for a few minutes before you have sex. This way she's wetter and it will be less painful for her as the sex continues.
Also, it depends on what position you're using. At first, have her to go on top that way she can control how deep you go.
Xnh / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I've tried on several woman to make them squirt, and I am usually unsuccessful. However I saw this adult video where a guy shows how easy it is to make her squirt, I've attempted it and succeeded on a couple of the girls I've been with. Check it out.
www.xsandhoes.com/every-girl-can-squirt
if she doesnt squirt, it will be an intense orgasm.
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