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What can my boyfriend and I do to give me an orgasm?
Question Asked by Haley 8 months ago - [ Ask a Question ]
My boyfriend and I often have sex, he reaches an orgasm every time but it feels like I never come close to reaching an orgasm.
We went online to try and find different positions and a lot of foreplay before sex, even spontaneously having sex but it still feels like I'm not even close to reaching an orgasm.
This is really putting him off and me as well, is there something wrong with me? I try not thinking about it, as well as thinking about it and I am just lost for what to do.
Is it possible for girls to never achieve an orgasm? I should at least feel close shouldn't I? Please let me know what, if there is anything I can do to achieve an orgasm, for my boyfriends sake and mine.
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It is possible that you have a normonal or sensitivity issue. Are you hairy in any way? Like do you have hair around your nipples or have a happy trail...something like that? The hair indicates the presence of testosterone. If you have it, you should have a higher sex drive. If not, there are shots and pills to take to get more testosterone. For natural things you can try, take something like Don Quia or a Maca Root supplement to get your hormones in order. Take zinc for sensitivity. Then try seeing if you can orgasm on your own with a vibrator. You just might not be a gspot kind of girl yet. If the vibrator works, get one for your finger and use it during sex. Boom - orgasm every time.
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by heavenlymind 3 months ago
Finger vibrators are small, just big enough to shake up your clit. Since the clit is exposed when a man is inside, you can play with it while he hits the g-spot. You basically get to masturbate while he fucks you.
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by big booty<3 3 months ago
ok you said "If the vibrator works, get one for your finger and use it during sex." what does that mean and DURING sex??