Ok, I'd like to say I discovered this on my own, no books, articles, ads, or sex shows. It may be written down somewhere, but not to my knowledge. Let me also say that everyones body is different and what works for one person, might not work for the next person. Also this post is for men too, we can practice this technique, in absence of another warm body.
Here we go. Hopefully you've already had the discussion with him, that you'd like him to last longer. Please do this before reading any further, you don't want to just spring this on him, believe me I know first hand, my girl tried to, and it only wound up in a long, drawn out fight, that could have been avoided.
First step, ladies. Start stroking, and start blowing. Guys, hopefully if you're alone, you'll just be stroking, or hey everyone's got their kinks, who am I to judge. Try and keep this up for as long as you can, or as long as your sex usually lasts. You can use lube, but I wouldn't recommend it, I think it might make it a little too pleasurable, causing him to go off right away, and we don't want that just yet. Next, pay attention to the throb factor, again this goes for you too guys, cause once you start really throbbing, you know you're gonna cum anywhere from 10 seconds to 1 minute later.
Now, you're getting closer to the point of fruition, and guys, let your woman know. Some ladies have told me that they can't feel it, whether it's in their hands or mouth. So, right when you feel that sensation about to come on, SLOW DOWN. If you're not sucking or stroking that fast to begin with, then just slow down to 1 - 4 strokes every 2 - 5 seconds, you can guage it how you want , depending on how well you know your mans body, or how well you guys know your own bodies. Keep doing that until the pressure subsides, and guys, you will actually feel your load slowely go back down to the base of your dick, or maybe halfway down. The point is, it's like you're storing it up. Now, for me there was never any discomfort, when doing this. But, I can guess that might cause blue balls for some guys the first time if done wrong, but if you're doing it right the load should not travel all the way back down to the balls, no farther than the base of the dick. After you have the load " stored " keep going slow another minute or two, just to insure that he wont go off right away, once regular speed is picked back up.
Then bring it back to normal speed, start sucking him again, do all your regular tricks, or what have you. He might last the same amount of time again, but chances are he will last a little longer. Remember, what you're doing is disciplining the dick, training it to resist at the last moment. So anyway, he's getting closer to cumming for the second time, and this time let it go, release the load, you've done enough for your first night of experimenting. Keep practicing this every day for a week, and its okay to have your usual sex during the week, but you probably wont see any changes until you've been doing it for a good 7 - 14 days. Eventually, you can practice holding it back, up to 3 or 4 times. That means eventually, they will be able to hold it back 3 or 4 times in one go around, making your sex last really really long, if that's what you both desire. Anyway, thanks for reading, tell me if this helps.
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