Not sure if my girlfriend was a virgin before me

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Well with my gf we are 8 months together but previously he was with another guy.
At the first month of our relationship,i fingered her at a beach,and there was no blood on my fingers at all...however,she told me later that when she went to her house she realised that there was some blood at her panties even if she didn't feel any pain.
Later on,after a month when we had sex for the first time,i remember that she didn't feel pain either and the blood that came out of her vagina was not red,it was like water,with some blood if you get what i mean (sorry for being disgusting) and it was very little...i dont remember very well...i think there were only few stains of that,nothing more....

So the question is...1)is it possible to break HALF of the hymen???:S
2) Was she really a virgin?...


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Otto
Otto / Man / Likes Women / Single

ask her if she was a virgin if you want to know. Hymen is no proof.

how old is she? Spotting for some women is normal during periods or before they start their periods.

Lots of nooks and crannies in the vagina. Could be any number of fleshy residuals before kitty is all broken in.

28 days ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole)
Adrian / 28 / Man / Likes Women / Single

dude, different women experience different things when they break their hymen. some are born without one. my ex-wife had very little blood and experienced pleasure our first time (she was a virgin)

28 days ago
Cantthinkofnickname
Cantthinkofnickname / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

she says that she is but if i believed her i wouldn't be here...tell me guys is it possible to break half of the hymen....i dont understand,,

28 days ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole)

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · possible? sure. humanly possible? very, VERY, VERY-INFINITY unlikely! dude, she says she was, that should be good enough? were you? let me ask you this- if she wasn't a virgin, would your dick be able to tell the differennce???

Otto

Otto · Listen your making a big deal out of nothing. Who gives a shit if she is a virgin or not? jesus man, You are taking your relationship for granted, and putting stress on her she does not deserve. Go relax, enjoy her company. Dont freak out about something so little and inane.

Adrian ( Resident A-hole)

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · .....$5 bucks sez they are both like high-school age, and they SWEAR virginity makes a big fuckin deal!!!!! ......... but then again, we may be older, but that also means we fuckin know better than to worry about something so insanely inane!

Otto

Otto · yes that is very likely

Mariah
Mariah / 19 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

I'm gonna say this only because no one has yes its possible to bleed twice I did just means you didn't pop her all the way the first time. But the guys are right...that was hard to say anyways you are making a big deal out of nothing

27 days ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole)

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i don't think he didn't pop her all the way. some people heal oddly and regenerate tissue. as far-fetched as it may seem, her body MAY have healed up a little 'too much'.....as in partial regenerated hymen. just enough to cause a small amount of discharge....

Mariah

Mariah · That's why I said it is possible

Cantthinkofnickname
Cantthinkofnickname / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship

thanks for everybody's opinion here.now let me tell you the truth.

the night that i fingered her i broke her hymen and she bleeded for 3 days after,she hadn't just told me because she didnt want me to freak out.also it did hurt but she didnt want me to stop.so,problem solved guys.i was a jerk for not believing her.and to me it is important because we are both 16 y.o. and i want her to be my first and her's too (sorry for bad english) anyway thanks everyone

14 days ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole)

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ah......the naiivity of youth......and STUPIDITY. dude, in 5 years you probably won't care about ur first!

Otto

Otto · Glad you game to your senses. Good luck,and treat her right.

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