i dont know what i want, i want to find love but dont want the drama and deception. also havent had sex in a few months either and i want that too, but i look at couples and see them fall apart and reminds me of my past relations...... i dont know what i want, random sex or a real relationship?
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ah......the eternal dilemma......u want to have someone, BUT you don't want the drama! just that alone means you will not do well with randoms. =/ you will probably do fine for a while, but eventually u'll 'fall' for someone and be hurt if they don't feel the same. u may just have to bite the bullet and get urself into the chaos that is relationships......
Bastagde / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
i agree with Adrian. The only advice i have to offer is to try not to stop thinking of it in terms of what kind of relationship you want and start thinking of it in terms of what kind of partner do you want. You know what has and what has not worked for you in the past...when you look back at your xs...do you see a pattern?
I'm not saying that there is a pattern mind you just suggesting you try to look at it as an outsider might. detached. Were there times that your behavior could have been better?
Go out and start dating again just be honest with people...or at least as honest as you can when trying to make a good impression +P..and if the right girl comes along you'll know if you want to be with her.
Otherwise flip a coin :)..when its in the air you'll know what side you rooting for =P
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · hey! i like the coin flipping suggestion! =P
Josh · i appreciate the help and problebly just do what you guys say and just deal with it
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